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What do I do I am 8 in a half months pregnant and haven't told my parents I have no idea who the father is because I have slept with a lot

my parents live in Oklahoma I live in bakersfield and I am 19 years old

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Well... if you're wanting to keep the child... it would be best that you tell your parents the truth immediately. How would you feel if you had a daughter, went to visit one day just to find out that she had a child...? And... if you're wanting to give the baby up... I'd suggest telling them as well. They are your parents and may have more insight to offer than you think. And remember to always spay and neuter your pets, it's the number one cause of unwanted pregnancies.

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yes I will keep the child but my parents abused me when I was little and rapped me and they have been taken to jail 4 times so I was taken away from them
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i come from an abusive home..don't do to your baby what they did to you...forgive them.all the more reason to love that baby.find the daddy.
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tell your parents your grown..love your baby no matter what.try to find the father.dont be mad at yourself.that little life will bring you so much joy.thank GOD the baby will slow you down.

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I was a preemie and now this water liquid is coming out of my actual area what do I do
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thats you water
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Go to the hospital. Geez. What do I do. Seriously. I hope you went.
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Something tells me this is a troll and a fake question.
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go away look at the one with 37 comments
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You have one-half month to go. I suggest that you arrange an adoption where you get to pick the parents. A fatherless baby doesn't really fit into your lifestyle, and you go for long periods without seeing family. There are lots of people out there who would be excellent parents to this infant. It is the honourable, selfless thing to do. You could start all over and your baby would be fine, right from the beginning. It will cost you nothing. Call social services and talk to somebody right away. This is the right thing to do.

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When people give up there kids their never happy. They always try to find the kid and regret it.the kid always look for them too.that's a suckers way out.that baby need you.
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Suckers way out? To allow the child a much better life than the mother could ever provide?
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That was rude. Who are you to say that. Everyones situation is different. I know a lot of people who were adopted or have given they're baby up for adoption and they're doing good. They've all had a second chance.
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Lisa, I don't think you have the experience to make this kind of uneducated judgement. Adoption works almost all the time if it happens close to the birth. Let older, more experienced people handle this question. You are not there yet. This baby could have a wonderful life with excellent, approved, parents with the time, resources, education to enhance to life of this baby with the birth mother's blessing. This would be good for the mother too, because she needs to get on with her life. Thank you Nwarguy and Jmj52091.
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I am in the hospital right now because my water broke and I am keeping my child
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Good. Either way that baby will love you. Hope you have a safe and healthy delivery.
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good dont let that baby live with someone you dont know keep it
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CSM, let us know how things go for you. I hope you have a short labour.
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what does cms mean
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my computer changed Cameron to CMS in error. I don't know why it happened.
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oh thats wierd
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I highly doubt this person is for real--posting from the hospital while in labor?
Right.
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Im rlly srry bout wht happened wen u were younger (red the othr thing) i wouldnt tell my parents if tht happened 2 me... I would stay aqay from them... Good luck!

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thank you I am actually in the hospital now because of my water breaking
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Omg rlly good luck! Im ganna follow u
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ok I am 5 cm dialated right now
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Wht does tht mean?
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how big my vagina is starting to open to have the baby 8 cm is the highest
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Howd it go? Girl or boy?
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1.) how do u no
2.) y
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its a boy!!!!!!! But I haven't gave birth yet
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Congradulations!!! Whts ganna b his name??
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i love babys by the way what happened to you when you were younger plz dont be afraid you can tell me anything
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his name is going to be carson
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plz answer my comment
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Awwh cute name!! I like tht name carson!! I love babies! Im so good with them!
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ill follow you if you tell me
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you guys are taking to long to answer im already following her
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Ik wht happened i u looked bak @ other commenta then ud no!!
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plz anyone softball, camron, anybody i feel left out
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I feel tht way all the time @ school
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oh thanks now i kno im so sorry about you childhood but thats the past focus on the future.................YOUR BABY ....try to think logically if you dont think it would be a doogidea dont
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whoops i sayd doog i ment good
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how far are you diallated
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im not sure that camron is still online guys she hasnt responded in more than 30 mins
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I gtg guys im sleeping ovr @ my friends house ttyl!!!
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ttyl
but dont you agree
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Carson Story, 8lbs 5oz 19 inches
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Awwh
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haha we know who the dad is too
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Omg whose the dad?!?!?!
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haha like you would know him but he has agreed to get married and be a parent with me he proposed
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Yea ikr & omg!!! Congradulations!!
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thank you
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Np
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haha the baby is doing well and looks a lot like his daddy
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was it painful camron having a baby i mean
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not really the epidural really helps
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heeeey Carson is already 9 days old
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Lol srry couldnt find this... Sounds like carsons soin well! Confrates!
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me and jace are getting married in 7 months
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Thts awesum!!
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haha yep how old are u
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Why?
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How old r u
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Btw im 13
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Well if your stomach doesn't show I guess you can start saying like "what happened to you but say it happened to somebody else or you can just runaway that but leave a note behind saying your sorry that what my friend did and she was only 12

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just keep your mouth shut
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I agree.
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haha thanx
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Adoption is perfectly acceptable thing if you don't mind giving up your child. There are plenty of couples that are desperate for a child. You really should consider using protection in this day and age.

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Bad advise. Abortion should not be used as a form of birth control.
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I just read her post about delivering the baby. Thank GOD she didn't listen to to your terrible advise
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don't be rude
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I didn't say anything about abortion. Can't you read? ADOPTION!!
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this tell your mom that you pregnant

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get a blood test with everyone you've slept with

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