haaaay no!!!! i made the mistake of still being friends with my friend wen she did the same thing aand she turned around and stabbed me in the back a second time!! :( (thts wat i got for seeing the best in everyone!!)
Wow, with friends like that, who needs enemies. I'm sorry that you seem to be losing your boyfriend and your best friend at the same time, but people who treat you that way aren't worth having in your life.
Honestly no. You can't trust her therefore your never going to see her the same way even if you try to be friends with her. A person like that is not really a friend cause they were only thinking of themselves
I have had the same thing happen to me and I didn't find out till way after. If it only happened once and he is willing ot try to work things out with you and truly shows that he is sorry then I would say givre it another try! but do not be friends with her!! I broke up with my boyfriend for awhile the nwe got back together, i learned if you forgive then it helps ALOT.
Okay, lets say she had a boyfriend and her boyfriend tried to kiss you. Would you kiss back? I'm sure you wouldn't, because that would make you a good friend. If you kiss back, you're a garbage friend. So believe me, if she knew he was with you and he went out with him, she deserves to be spat on.
OHHHHHHHHHHHH HEELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOo screw the hoe!!!! she is no friend if she did that u!!!!!!!!!!! ughhh go punch her in face n burn her hair!!!! honestly that gross!!!!!!!!
this happened to me a while back, it feels horrible especially when its somebody so close to you. and the worst part was she didnt even tell me he ended up telling me like a few months after it happened. but what i did was ask her and she just kept lying so i just stopped talking to her. i stayed with the guy but didnt trust him. and let me tell you the relationship didnt work. so we ended up breaking up because trust is big in a relationship. so i mean its all up to you, do you want to deal with not trusting him?
I guess only you could really answer that question. However if you value her relationship & prefer not to lose, you could/should always keep in mind that it is up to you as to how much someone takes advantage of you. Meaning that, if you are happy to give a known thief money, expect to lose your money.
This would be the same for your love life, if you give a cheater your heart, expect your heart to be potentially broken and if you have friends that have less than admirable values, expect that person may be likely to "put it on" your partner.
In summary, people can only take from you what you let them get away with.
It sounds like in your case that you have 2 less than admirable people in your life & if you want to keep one (your best friend), your choice of boyfriends should be ones that you can fully trust, since the world is unfortunately full of temptation, whether it is from a best friend or a complete stranger.
Be with someone you can trust and it wont matter what your "best friend" is like with respect to your boyfriend.
I hope that helps - you sound like someone who deserves someone nice!
NO! Dump her as a friend and him as a boyfriend. People who love you and want the best for you would never hurt you in anyway!!! Let them go, they are not good people that you would want to be around. They will just do it again and again! Find better more true friends.
Approach her, but be mature. That girl may need a slap, but you'll look better by talking to her about it sensibly and then breaking up the friendship ASAP! You have every right to be angry with her, but someone who would do that is not worth wasting the effort on. Show that boyfriend too that he never deserved you!
if you and her have been friends for a long time..... then dont give up you're friendship because of a boy, and a mistake. we all undergo trials that make us think and want to give up.... but this is you're test. and i think its time for you to pass it.
um, in your question you stated that he cheated on you with her, so wouldnt she know ? and if she was a good friend she wouldnt of put herself in the position to get close enough with him , to take things further. Get rid of her, and him. Hoes gonna be hoes. and guys are gonna be guys.
If she knew that you and your boyfriend was in a relationship together, then she was wrong for putting herself in a situation that ended up betraying your friendship and trust. As, for your boyfriend, if he has a clear understanding that you and him were in a monogamous committed relationship. Then, he obviously needs to be let go. Now, that you know about the both of them, staying in a relationship and friendship with any of them would just make things worse in the end. You'll never be able to trust them in the same way, and you'll always have security issues with them. And, when the slightest thing happens, you'll probably jump to conclusions that would surface from a unforgiving heart.
well anyone who does that to you and knows they mean a lot to you then no i wouldnt because that is what has happened to many of my other friends and they got really hurt so i would do what you think is the best but before you do anything else i would sit down and talk with her and tell her how you feel about what she did to you and if she doesnt even care then go ahead and do what you want to do no one is going to stop you.