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What Do You Do If Your BoyFriend Cheated On You 3 Times But You Have Reasons 2 Believe That Hes Changed Over The Months?

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I am a guy and I promise you... HE IS LYING!

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u r right ..
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If you honestly believe he has changed then trust yourself, but if there is any doubt I would say leave him. I may not be the most reliable person, but I can see why you seek help. I hope this avails you.

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doesnt matter if hes changed he had too many chances already- breakup!!!!

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do not stay with him because you don't know if he's still testing you .

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People can change, but it usually takes a serious life altering event. I doubt he had that; so you will experience continued heartache, until you wise up and stop being a door mat.

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Three times...? Are you serious? Exactly how many times do you want to go thru this before you get fed up & walk away? You deserve better - now go find it.

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Always go with your instincts then ask.com. If you truly think he's the one go for it, don't listen to us

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Agree, it's always good to hope that someone has finally changed, and give them a chance. But on the flip side, if it doesn't work out then those closest to her will rightly tell her - "Didn't you know he was like this before you got engaged? Married? Had children?" Um... sob... yeah... Happens all the time. Some women become so attracted to "bad boys" that they look the other way, over & over again, trusting them to do the right thing, eventually. But somehow eventually never comes.
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Haha lol. You did a really good explaining that. I actually understood
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Personally, I would only give one chance. Two is too many and three is outrageous.

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You can continue to teach him that he can always run back to you as a last resort, or you can teach him that you don't wait for people who have no idea of what they want. Past behavior is the best way to judge future behavior.

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It takes more than months to change sometimes they never change. Guys lie to get what they want and there good at it. If he already cheated on you 3 times he doesn't take you seriously and probably never will. It's probably best if you move on cause obviously he did after the first time he cheated

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