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i'm moving out......?

so i live with my best friends family since..some complications in my family. and my friend asked me out and i said yes. but now he is acting different. like......ill tell you if you ask. what should i do?

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You gotta give more DETAILS!!

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how much more! if i added anymore the mods would of taken it off
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How old are you?!

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16. but in a month ill be 17
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ummmm..thts too young to be living with a guy
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agreed i mean 1m 16 and turning 17 soon also and thats way to young :)
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If u read it u would read "bcuz im having troubles @ home"
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I know but why not move in with your best friend whos a girl or something, why a guy ?
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yes. softball is right
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because all my friends are guys
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You need some girlfriends!
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im sorry i never fit in with the girls. im a super tomboy
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It doesnt matter who your friends are as long as they're accepting and caring. And as long as they like you for who you are!
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Same here!! Im a tomboy i only hav 2 friends tht r girls! I have like 5-8 tht r boys ( im not popular )
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haha me neither
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Im tomboy all the way , but feminine :)
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I'm a tomboy and I have four girl friend and they are all tomboys
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Hard 2 blive u all r tomboys
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Im not really following? Explain it to me like im a five-year-old.

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well i live with my best friend who is a guy. and he asked me out. i said yes. and he asked me something really surprising.
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what did he ask u?
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He wants to bang her
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im not sure what you just said. but it sounds about right
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Wow. Sorry about that. You do need to move out. Maybe you can find a way to resolve your family issues. Good luck to you!
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Ohhhh... Well I think you should tell him how you feel about that. Everyone has to make their own decisions... If he cant accept your wishes, than hes not such a great friend. You need to talk over the subject with him and make so you both feel comfortable... It is a hard topic. But it will make it all better!
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thanks. :) its just ever since he asked me that. i dont feel safe in my own room anymore. like if i lock it. it wont madder bc he has a key
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Exactly. That why you gotta go girl!
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i know.
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How is he different?

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like he asked me something. (if you know what i mean)
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Haha oh yea...
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Well you should talk it over with him. And I hope you can make things better between you without making it awkward :) best of luck'
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thanks
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How different?

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like he acts like not a friend but a serious boyfriend
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you guys dated? how old are you?
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16 and he is 17. but im going to be 17 soon
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you're the same age as my girlfriend and im 22..so? do you like him?
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ummm..isent it kinda sick if ur 22 and dating a 16 year old? coudent u go to jail fur tht?
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i guess so? hmm...sorry but i guess i just dont care :-)
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i dont think so. because i know people who are 11 years apart and they got married. and i kinda like him
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she's turning 17 too? soo.?..im willing to wait for her to get her parents to kinda agree? so...yea :-)
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and by kinda. i mean i really do like him. just not in that way. no i dont mean not like a boyfriend. i mean the other thing
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say it clear finnandjake...i'm not getting you..what other thing? put it in spaces so you dont get removed.
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it still will. the (thing) you know. *cough* baby *cough*
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s-e-x?
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yes!
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that's too young..and if you don't love him? that's just more wrong.. YOU WILL REALIZE WHAT I'M SAYING once you get married. i'm still a vir-gin . SAVING IT FOR MY WIFE...don't mess up your life that way
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well im not. and i do love him! i dont want to have _ _ _ because i already have gotten pregnant before and im not wanting that to happen again!
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wow....you just proved my point
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wow. i really need to work on that
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take care of yourself
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thanks. you too
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I'm not sure if you should move out until you know what he's leading to exactly. Where would you go? And how has he been acting?
You need to have a place definitely. Do you know where you'd be going?

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i dont know where id go. but he asked me a really surprising question
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I'm thinking he asked you to do..certain things.
You may wanna talk to his parents about it(:
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Not following

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read it slower. or look at other answers comments
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What did he ask u?

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(something if you know what i mean)
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Ooooo ok lol
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U need to go and talk to your parents, u need them and you need to be in your own home. No family is perfect, try talking to them. Wish you the best!

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well when i said im having difficulties at home i ment. my mom died and my dad is in jail
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harsh!
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Try and talk to grand parents and uncles, aunts. I'm sure some one would be there for you. Good luck!
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well most of my relatives live in america. so its kinda hard. im in england
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give me the address when you get there

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what?
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rude! lol XD
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Pedo!
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i was just joking
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does this have something to do with the baby u were preg with?

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no. ive never dated any of my best friends or friends before. and r u talking about just a week ago or a bunch of weeks ago. because one of them was a mistake that the docs made
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o ok...well im glad to hear tht!
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Finn, before you do anything, have a plan. Maybe for the time being, while you're staying there, just keep it as friends. (no benefits). Once you find a place to stay, and get yourself settled, you could reconsider your relationship at that time. But it seems too much is happening at once and you're not allowing yourself the time to think it through. Good luck.

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thanks! :)
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I read the comments .. Acting like a real boyfriend this should not be a problem if you like the guy, but if all he wants is the thing you dont wanna mention for his own reasons i say look for a girl roommate and avoid all the complications of living with a guy

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he isnt my roommate though. his family had an extra room
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So you live at his place for free ? Or are you paying?
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for free. because my mom died and my dads in jail. so they didnt want me to pay.
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but are you working ? do you have enough money to move out ? because if you do i strongly recommend you doing that if you are not comfortable there.. you are still young and you should not be affected by alot after you've been through. good luck
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thanks. and i have a job at target.
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Dont worry

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what? why in the world would you say dont worry!?
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Srry i kept losing our convo so i just said sumthing so i could try & help u ( im so dang stupid )
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haha well you may continue
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Lol im srry i feel bad
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Wht do u mean by ok ill tell u if u ask?
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like ill tell you if you ask about what he said to me
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Be clear about his intention. May be he fall in love with you that is why he is asking or acting differently.

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well yes. i mean when i said different. i ment he asked me to have.........

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try mmoving back home or move in with anotehr firend n not date them

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thanks
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