Tell her about how they are going to get money, how will they care for the baby. Talk some sense into her. If that doesn't work, parents on the phone, don't delay.... NOW
We DO NOT need anymore teen moms and unwanted babies.
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Don't hurt her! if you get her preg it will be a life of torture!
That has got to be the most ridiculous 'plan' I have ever heard .. "Ready to be a Mom at 13" This girl hasn't the foggiest clue what it takes to be a mom .. An infant is nothing like a dolly .. She will devastate her whole family, herself, not to mention the life of an innocent child.
Let her watch 16 and prego
There's not a lot YOU can do at your age to stop her (no offense intended). If you are truly concerned either tell her parents or yours, she's going to be mad at you but it's better that than her having a baby at her age. You can always ask her parents not to say it was you. I'm sorry I'm not much more help but if my 13 year old wanted to get someone pregnant I would want to know ASAP :)
You're a good friend but you can't stop her! Talk to her & try! Ultimately, she's gonna do what she wants! Maybe, go to her parents, she'll be mad but you might save her from her foolishness!
She needs to realize all of the responsibility of being a mom. At 13, her life would be completely taken off course.
Noone shud have a kid til theyre 25 or 23
Just let her know how whack that really is..there's nothing cool about a thirteen yr old pushing a stroller down the street with a crying baby inside..not cool at all..let her know of all the fun stuff she is gonna miss out on like the prom and graduation and just chillen with her gf's..she can kiss all that goodbye..let her know u do not support this idea at all and then let your mom know...an adult needs to step in cuz she is clearly not thinking straight.
Remind her of all of the fun things she is going to miss. Like she won't be able to stay out late or hang out with friends as much as she'd like to because she'll have a child. Plus who will raise it since she legally can't drop out of school yet? Wouldn't it be best for the child if it had parents with a stable job to raise it? Plus it's bad for her body. Most pregnant women get stretch marks, but since she's not even fully grown yet, she's bound to get them severely. I imagine you could probably look up some harmful side effects of getting pregnant too young. Tell her that she'll never get to have a prolonged 'honeymoon stage' with her future husband because when they got married, they'd already have a kid to take care of. Also, let her know that if she does this then she's going to face a lot of social ridicule. Good luck convincing her!
TELL HER PARENTS! they have to be married! dont be afraid to tell them. so what if she gets in trouble. that would teach her
Tell her she will mess up her life for ever ...I mean having a baby at this age
ok, your job as her friend is to talk some sense into her. tell her that a baby's not just a walk in the park.tell her she should wait because she needs 2 do whats best.4 her and, the baby and if she is feeling THAT emotional about her bf she needs 2 talk 2 her family.and a doctor.
good luck and hope it helps! also tell your parents to tell her parents.
Tell her that she has to be ready to give up her pretty years, her money, her happiness, and that not all people are going to support her.
Wow! Please tell her parents for starters. Then, ask any other your teachers in school, or at the library if they have any short movies on teens and pregnancy. Ask her and her boyfriend, (his parents should be told too) how they are going to: Drive to the hospital to have the baby for starters, pay health, life, medical insurance on themselves and the baby, have jobs to support themselves and the baby, drive to work and go to school and study and take care of the baby. These are all things their parents do for them! I'm pretty sure, unless they are incredibly wealthy, overly educated, and know how to get a college education and a well paying job at 13, it's going to be tough. Show this page, and tell her you care! You Take Care of you too! :) Sweet Dreams & have a nice night
i agree whith most of the peoples answer but i wanted to add that if she does get pregnant stick by her because after she realizes that it was a bad idea she'll need a friend
Explain to her how expensive it is to have a baby and that a young girl who can't drive in school has no way to get that money. Also tell her that there are no guarantees that her boyfriend will remain loyal to her, and that kids at school will probably make fun of her for being a teen mom. She'll also miss out on fun things people do in high school. She'll also get fat
"Hey. You really should not do this. I tell you this because I care about you but I don't want you to be a teen mom. Please, you'll have no time to hang out with us anymore and all your money will be gone! Please, lea (not her real name) do not do this!!"
Tell her the pain that she would have to go through. The unbeliveable pain. Tell her that she cant be the same and that its totally insane and out of her mind.
Tell her you want to go somewhere with her, like a movie or whatever the two of you like to do. Say that once she has the baby she will be too busy to go out because it will be her job to take care of her baby. Besides she will have no money since she is too young to get a job. Remind her of the spring breaks she will not be able to go to, and any other events that happen where you live. And then there is college, how will she manage to attend college? And all those parties you will be attending and she wont. She and her boy friend may be "planning it all out" but are they thinking of all the things they will be giving up.
And there is a sad statistic she probably does not know. Most teen dads abandon the relationship as soon as they realize how much work it is to raise a child. And if her boy friend is 18 or over he will be in jail for statutory rape. Either way she will probably wind up raising the child alone.
Ask her questions on what she's going to do when you do she might think clearly
Let her watch a cow hive birth on YouTube!! Game over:)
NO she does not need a baby this early!!!!!!! its a bad idea and she is going to regret it later in life..she should worry about school first and i really doubt if she does have a baby that she will stay w/her boyfriend!!! TELL HER ITS A BAD IDEA!!!!BEFORE ITS TO LATE!!!!!!
You could explain that her parents might make her put her baby up for adoption.She is a minor being coming a mom does not make her an adult,she is not of legal age to drive a car or get a job.This is so upside down 13? She should not even be on a date alone with a boy yet.Why? Do I say that? Because she is 13 wanting a baby? That is imature.I would tell her mom ,maybe lose a friend but save a baby:( Good luck
Tell her she will ruin her life and miss out on all the fun of being a teenager and young adult.
You need to tell her parents, a school counselor or someone right now, because she does not seem to fully understand what she is doing.
Take care!
Tell her a babysit and see if she handle it...and soon enough she'll figure out she's not ready to take this big of a reposonsibility.
what happened? is she pregnat? did she really ...(you know)? what did her parents do? give me all the detalis i want to make sure shes ok.(im not some creeper i promise im also 13)
Main points:
?We don't know how long to wait until she can take a pregnancy test.
?Does anybody know how long we have to wait?
tell her parents
I think you should report this to a trusted adult. I know it would toture your friend but, we don't want that do we now? If you don't feel comfortable with telling her parents or having her go to the counsler, tell her some reasons why it would be bad for her to get pregnant so young. If this doesn't work out, go do as i said in the first part. Hope i could help!
She needs to realize having a baby is a big responsibility, especially at an age like hers. Talk to her as long as you need for her to understand. Just remind her of how expensive a baby is, you can't just use allowance money from your parents. Remind her of how much work a baby is... Is she used to waking up at 1:00 in the morning because the baby pooped itself? Remind her that having a baby is hard work, a big responsibility and very expensive. And also, she can die if she has a baby at that age anyway! I hope your friend doesn't get pregnant.
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