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I have this friend she's really close. we kiss all the time. we fell in love with each other. but a couple nights ago she texted me saying that she didn't think I was right for her. and the next day she texted me telling me that she made a mistake and wanted me back because there's no better man then me. but tonight we were talking and she freaked out on me saying that I was trying to change her. I never said anything trying to change her. I like her or who she is there is no reason for me to change her. but now she said that i should not text her until she text me. we have bin fighting about random stuff that I supposedly have done. but some might be the case. if she asks me again to come back to her do you think I should? I mean she was my first love but I'm not too sure now?

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sometimes i can't unserstand girls... I feel for you dude. Truth be told, I don't really know if you should.

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I think shes on her period. (not supposed to be funny im serios)

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you need to text her no matter what she says, and tell her that your never meant to try and change her becuz you like her just the way she is! tell her what your feel:D hope this helps! :)

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What I'd she just gets more mad if I text her?
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How old are you guys?

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I'm 15 she's almost 17
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She is concern about the age diffrance I had this issue with my xgirlfriend ...and she was 6 years older but with time she will get it
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Hmm... Maybe... I dont know though she seems ok with that
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You have to show her that age does not matter and you can protect and take care of her ...show and prove that
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Whatever feels right to you. Search your heart and if she is the one, then run to her, run to her!

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Fighting about silly things is never good she sounds confused and unsure! Take some time off and who knows maybe you two were never right in the first place or maybe the time off will show that you really miss each other and need to be a part of each others lives.

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be honest with her, tell her how you feel, tell her you never wanted to change her and tell her you love her. Girls always want to know somebody is there for them :)

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Y'all need to talk it through so you both know what is going on. Why does she think you are trying to change her and how? Are either or both of you nervous and is that affecting the relationship.

I also would suggest that you talk to each other.... not just text.

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I don't know I'm not pushy I mean I'm a very mature 15 year old but, I don't know.
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We talk in person all the time
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Good for you on both of those counts. I like the idea of giving each other some space. Someone mentioned hormones and that could be the deal. However, I don't know that I would mention it to her. Depending.....she might deck you. Good luck.
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If you do not know why or how she thinks you are trying to change her.....ask her. Have a private conversation with her.
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Sounds like she is unneeded stress. You need to decide if she is worth it or not.

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If this was happening to you what would you do?
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It sounds like this person would dump her. Only you know if it is worth it to hang in there. Dumping is not a good life strategy.
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If I felt like things were going to works out then I would talk to them about how i feel and see where things go if I felt like it wasn't going to work out I would tell them I have had enough of the games it's over just leave me alone. Hope that made sense
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Text her first. Let her know she was on your mind.

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Ladies have this thing called hormones, it can make us run hot one min then cold the next ( sorry guys) we will change our minds like night turns to day, especially at a certain time of the month, everything seems to irritate us no matter how big or small. It can almost seem like a mental meltdown to those that are in the path of destruction ( lol ). Give her a few days and see what happens. Good luck!!!

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Three letters...one "word"... P.M.S

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Care to explain?
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Almost all girls do it. Even I do it. When you are on you're period, your emotions go crazy. You are so confused because no matter how stupid the situation is, we sometimes over react greatly and become VERY paranoid.
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