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How do I stop being in love with my best friend? I'm a boy and shes a girl.

I have liked her for a couple months ago and now she is dating my guy best friend. it's hard for me.

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Well hun the heart wants what the heart wants but if staying apart is better 4 ur relationship, don't pursue her as a sexual relationship. Keep it just friendly.

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How is that not good advice? I got 2 thumbs down
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Crazy people.
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They are buttwipes! I gave you a thumbs up. Good answer.
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Well is it worth maybe losing a friendship.. Think bout it before you confront her that you like her. Cuz you could lose you guy friend and her. So please be careful

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I don't think it's worth losing our friendship.
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You don't stop.If you love her so much fight for her.

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If you're in love wit her, you can't stop it, it's natural.. But why do you want to stop? She's your best friend, and, you probably feel like, she doesn't feel the same way, but you never know until you try !

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I want to stop because I don't think she has the same feelings for me. And that it wouldn't work and it would only make it awkward between us just because I asked. I just want to stop liking her. It's been going on for a few months now.
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Wow. I so wish there was an easy answer for that. I don't think there is. Mostly you just have to grin and bear it. The alternative is to turn into a jerk, which is never a good idea.

All you can really do is keep reminding yourself that she doesn't seem to be sharing your feelings... and get out there and find someone that is available. Go to parties, keep busy, meet some other people.

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Thats the same situation I'm going through right now but I'm a girl n I like my bestfriend too but he is dating one of my good friends

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Just tell her

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you cant.....it happens with best friends..of the opposite sex, your in love and you cannot deny it, just wait....she may change her mind on that other guy....but be there for her even though you have mixed feelings at this moment....but there may still be time for you...dont get weary...keep on watching and show her your here

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Wait until she breaks up with the other guy. Then you can comfort her and tell her that you love her. It's a touchy subject and a difficult situation but usually if you tell someone that you love them they gain stronger feelings for you

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Next time you like someone, don't wait too long and act quicker. For now there is nothing you can do about her.

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Well that happens 2 me 2 to bit I like my cuzins friend Nd he is 18 Nd I'm only 15

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Move on, my man. Welcome to life. She made her choice. Be a man and accept it. Don't do anything stupid and put your friendship on the line. Distance your self for now if it means protecting your self from being hurt.

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Omg

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I agree with senor tapatio

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