i'm with Isabel, he has no right to be injuring you. you should show him that he is not superior be breaking up with him the next time you see him, no matter how hard it is, you are doing the right thing. God bless you.
I wouldnt call the cops unless it was very very bad.. I wouldnt stay with him though. And when and if you leave him dont fall for the I love you shit cuz if he loved you he wud never put his hands on you. And I would suggest standing up for yourself if he puts his hands on you again.
Everything can be solved with words. I've been in your situation before many years ago- he is violent I'm sure- my ex ended up pulling a knife on my father. HE NEEDS HELP and if this has been going on for a while chances are it will only get worse.
Of course he has ended your relationship but what troubles me is that you even feel the need to ask this question. Please try to look at what got you into such a relationship. Until you understand and believe that you deserve much much better you will again find yourself connected to this type of guy.
Leave him, don't talk, text, email, or otherwise communicate with him. If he persists in trying to contact you tell him STOP!! If he tries to see or contact you in anyway you will call the police!!! Then DO NOT have any further communication with him. YOU ARE WORTH MUCH MORE THAN THAT!!!!
Tell Him if he hits you one more time your leave him and qo to the cops. Nobody deserves to be abused. Your Beautiful.. Your find a REAL man.!<3 DO NOT fight back.. he can say you abuse him.. and he was protectinq himself.
Hear me out on some real stuff girl. What everyone is saying is true and real. If you had his baby you want him to beat on your child as well just cause you didn't leave when you had the chance to. LISTEN UP AND LISTEN GOOD! Bounce now before your family&friends see your body in a body bag. Harsh to say but so true in this life... And if you don't have anyone to help you leave from from him. I know many people are willing to help you on that part girl. GOOD LUCK!
Go to your parents, then the cops! Ive had a abusive boyfriend who threaten to beat me more if i left him! Well guess what, I left that bitch and Im happy and alive. Hes in jail now. Do that right thing, go to your parents and cops asap!!!
This is probably going to get me bulldozed by a bunch of people, and I can't believe I'm saying this myself (I will probably kick myself later on), but you have to remember that this guy is human. If it was a hard hit, if it's happened more than once, if it wasn't deserved, then yes, leave the jerk. But I've hit people I loved before (still regretted it) but they didn't leave me and gave me a second chance and just because my temper got the better of me once doesn't necessarily make me a douchebag forevermore.
First off, call the frigging police, that's a crime. And break up with him right away...but not face to face because if you say it to his face he is most likely to hit you again. No one should be treated like that.
break up w/him immediately & file charges. from experience, i can tell you if you don't file charges against someone that is going to leave you w/lifelong trauma, you will regret. even if he doesn't get charged, knowing you tried will prevent you from feeling anger at yourself that you didn't for the rest of your life.
if you really like him then tell him that you do not want him to touch you and he has no right to even put a hand on you without your ok. if he does oit again then break up with him and if he keeps on bothering you file charges
Please end all contact with him and do it NOW. Your focus needs to be on you now and building up your self-esteem whether it be a self help book, counseling or joining a support group. I stayed for two months and then snuck out with my two kids because I felt like he was going to kill me or the kids. Unfortunately I put up with his verbal abuse for many years.I dont want to see anyone else suffer through that cuz its a life long effect!! YOU ARE WORTH IT!!!
as hard as it may be you have to leave him, and stay away, easier said than done but if you stay it will never change only get worse, ive been threw this and took me along time to wake up but you can do this take a stand and leave!!