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kick him in the dong.

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haha good one!
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Nice!!!!
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thnx lol :)
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lol nice 1!!
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lol :)
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lol awesome
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leave him! he has no right to put his hands on you. remember... the first is always the hardest but it only gets easier. hope this helps!! B)

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You should leave him!!! He should never touch you like that!

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go to the cops!

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call the police . nobody needs to put up with abusive people that hit

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i'm with Isabel, he has no right to be injuring you. you should show him that he is not superior be breaking up with him the next time you see him, no matter how hard it is, you are doing the right thing. God bless you.

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thank you!! B)
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That means hes an f-ing coward and you dont need that

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well you you can tell me where he lives so i can go kick hes ass

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hahaha u go man!!!
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Hell ya!!! Leave some for me!!!!
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Lol
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leave him and stay away from him because he is not worth it

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Yes I'm here and what a great answer thumbs up :0)
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LEAVE HIM!!! no one deserves that and you deserve better then someone who hits you!

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Kick his a$$

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agreed!!
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llol
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@troop or kick his nuts!
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Men should not abuse women!!! Mentally or physically.Leave,I'm sure you deserve better. If it happened once,it will happen again.

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I wouldnt call the cops unless it was very very bad.. I wouldnt stay with him though. And when and if you leave him dont fall for the I love you shit cuz if he loved you he wud never put his hands on you. And I would suggest standing up for yourself if he puts his hands on you again.

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karma will get him >:)

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Everything can be solved with words. I've been in your situation before many years ago- he is violent I'm sure- my ex ended up pulling a knife on my father. HE NEEDS HELP and if this has been going on for a while chances are it will only get worse.

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You should call the police!I HATE guys like that.

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Break up with him!!

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Act like everything's cool, pretend like it never happened.

Then invite him over one day when your Dad is home. When all three of you are in the room at the same time, ask him "So, why'd you hit me?" Dad will take it from there, problem solved.

This has to be dealt with now. If you let it go, it'll only get worse with each fight until he seriously injures you. Better to get your heart broken than your face broken.

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thats smart but it might also lead to more problems...
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If it were my daughter, the problem would be solved very quickly.
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"problems" wld be solved and finished real quick after dad deals with him. Good answer @Tony
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awesome answer love it!
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leave him!...dont believe that it wont happen again, because it will.
there is no excuse for that kind of behavior.
u may be heart broken, but you will find someone who will never hit.

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Of course he has ended your relationship but what troubles me is that you even feel the need to ask this question. Please try to look at what got you into such a relationship. Until you understand and believe that you deserve much much better you will again find yourself connected to this type of guy.

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Leave him no REAL man treats a girl that way

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break up with him and call the police

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End that and dump his butt go to the police never put up with that!!

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Leave him. As long as you are with an abuser, you won't meet someone that will treat you with respect.

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1...tell the police....2...REVENGE!! haha lol revnge might not be the best answer tho:)

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well telling the police might actualy be preety good revenge. B)
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haha yeh but if he's that much of a jerk then give him more than he expects:D haha lol:)))
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Get as far away from him as possible. Nobody has the right to do that to another person. If it happened once it will happen again. Break all contact with any idiot like that.

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Leave him, don't talk, text, email, or otherwise communicate with him. If he persists in trying to contact you tell him STOP!! If he tries to see or contact you in anyway you will call the police!!! Then DO NOT have any further communication with him.
YOU ARE WORTH MUCH MORE THAN THAT!!!!

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Tell Him if he hits you one more time your leave him and qo to the cops. Nobody deserves to be abused. Your Beautiful.. Your find a REAL man.!<3 DO NOT fight back.. he can say you abuse him.. and he was protectinq himself.

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Leave him the first time he hits u is never the last n if u try to dump him n he thretens u got to the police

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Hear me out on some real stuff girl. What everyone is saying is true and real. If you had his baby you want him to beat on your child as well just cause you didn't leave when you had the chance to. LISTEN UP AND LISTEN GOOD! Bounce now before your family&friends see your body in a body bag. Harsh to say but so true in this life... And if you don't have anyone to help you leave from from him. I know many people are willing to help you on that part girl. GOOD LUCK!

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No one should ever put their hands on you. Take it from me, if someone hit one of my daughters, oh my, that's all I can say.

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Leave Him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Men are NEVER supposed to touch you in that way... Leave him, because even if you love him, the hurt will only get worse if you wait,

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Report him, get a restraining order quick! I have experience in this! My mom dated a guy like that and he kidnapped us!! Get rid of him but don't tell him u will or he will hurt u

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Call the cops and dump him.

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agree^
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roll over and tell him to put some stank on it next time!

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hahahahahaha.... no seriously leave him

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it is simple really, kill him (: im j k beat that A$$

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y go that far
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im was joking........ gee.
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NOOO dont just leave him .
Pay two REALLY muscular guy to jump him EVERY week .!

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leave leave leave leave leave leave leave leave leave leave leave leave leave leave!!!!!!! oh and kick his d@mn @$$

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ha yeah
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1st break up with him and you should have a friend there when you do because he might hit you or some sh** and if he harasses you tell your parents and call the police .-.

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umm if he is hitting you then why are you even with him in the first place? he has no right to hit you. and dont let it happen again its not good for you

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dump his a** and never talk to him again

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DUMP HiM

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report him!!!!!!!

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dump him and tell ur parents!! ASAP

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First of all, break up with him, then Tell someone like a really close friend and they can help you through it. go to someone like the cops and they can take care of that *******!!!

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You should leave him, he shouldn't be putting his hands on you.

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hell yeah
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A guy does not have the right to put his hands on a women. I would leave the fool and date a real man..!!!

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Go to your parents, then the cops! Ive had a abusive boyfriend who threaten to beat me more if i left him! Well guess what, I left that bitch and Im happy and alive. Hes in jail now. Do that right thing, go to your parents and cops asap!!!

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Buy a gun

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dump his ass

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hit him back even if its not the right thing to do she deserves it you're sticking up for yourself.

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This is probably going to get me bulldozed by a bunch of people, and I can't believe I'm saying this myself (I will probably kick myself later on), but you have to remember that this guy is human. If it was a hard hit, if it's happened more than once, if it wasn't deserved, then yes, leave the jerk. But I've hit people I loved before (still regretted it) but they didn't leave me and gave me a second chance and just because my temper got the better of me once doesn't necessarily make me a douchebag forevermore.

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in a way i agree with you, i wouldnt tolerate it and i refuse but i admit ive done things that i think i should have gotten hit for but never has. no one should be beating on anyone but petafiles and murderers and people like that but girls dont hit your boys and fellas lets not hit on your ladies.. try a stress ball before resulting in abuse
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Leave him now. You dont deserve that kind of treatment from anyone. No one does!!!

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First off, call the frigging police, that's a crime. And break up with him right away...but not face to face because if you say it to his face he is most likely to hit you again. No one should be treated like that.

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Beat his ass, then leave. (:

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LEAVE HIM while you have a chance! he's a coward and a bully! then have his ass KICKED !!

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i thin u are to cute for him...!

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tell the police and RUN AWAY

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break up w/him immediately & file charges. from experience, i can tell you if you don't file charges against someone that is going to leave you w/lifelong trauma, you will regret. even if he doesn't get charged, knowing you tried will prevent you from feeling anger at yourself that you didn't for the rest of your life.

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if you really like him then tell him that you do not want him to touch you and he has no right to even put a hand on you without your ok. if he does oit again then break up with him and if he keeps on bothering you file charges

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Don't give him any more chances to hit you! If you let him hit you one more time, he might kill you!

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ditch him if he hits you that means that he isn't manly enough to hit a guy. also you should call the cops it is illegal for him to hit you

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get 5 other buff guys and jump him in the face!!!!

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tell him that isn't right , if you have been hit more than one time report to the cops , then break up with him cause he will be mad at you and he might hit you again!

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Please end all contact with him and do it NOW. Your focus needs to be on you now and building up your self-esteem whether it be a self help book, counseling or joining a support group. I stayed for two months and then snuck out with my two kids because I felt like he was going to kill me or the kids. Unfortunately I put up with his verbal abuse for many years.I dont want to see anyone else suffer through that cuz its a life long effect!! YOU ARE WORTH IT!!!

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as hard as it may be you have to leave him, and stay away, easier said than done but if you stay it will never change only get worse, ive been threw this and took me along time to wake up but you can do this take a stand and leave!!

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leave his ass and tell someone if he threatens u too do it again like the cops or ur parents

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Either A) make a sandwich

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dump his a**

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dump him his abuse could get worse and so will the injuries which I'm sorry to say could end up to death , dump him and next time he hits you call the cops it's illegal to hit a women.

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break up!

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learn kung fu and go jackie chan on his ass

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Break up with him because nobody whether it is a guy or girl should ever hit their girlfriend or boyfriend. If things get worse report him to the police for abuse.

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Get Back in the Kitchen

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hey man stop bein a douche.
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whoop that ASS (hard)

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Leave him! i was in an abusive relationship for over a year because i was afraid to leave him .. but since i did i have been WAY more happy! you deserve better than that. get rid of him

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Leave him immediately and alert the police because if you try to leave him he may attack again and this time it may be much worse.

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call the police

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whoop dat ass !!!!1

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go to the police and get a restraining order against him!!!

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