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My ex boyfriend wants me back but I have a new boyfriend. It's a long complicated story....

My new boyfriend and I have only known each other for a month, and it's already pretty serious. But a few days ago, my ex (who I stayed friends with after the break up until about a month ago) started talking to me again. He says he wants to give us another shot. He never cheated on me. This is a very hard decision for me to make. My current man has his own place, a steady job, a nice car, and can take care of me. But I love my ex, and to be honest, I feel like I'm kind of just settling with my new man. Logically, my brain tells me to stay with my new man because he can take care of me. But my heart's been telling me to go back to my ex because I know he can make me happy. I've got a lot of feelings... Please help me.

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To be honest? I have no respect for your ex for putting you in this situation....

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I completely agree with you on this one.
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Well, my ex and I were supposed to meet up today, but it looks like he blew me off. Looks like my decision is made.
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Think about your decision before making it, ask yourself "Can I see myself marrying this person and growing old and dying with this person?", follow your heart, and pray to God for wisdom and guidance.

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No, put who i cant live without
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Listen to your heart baby....listen to your heart otherwise you will regret it later.....really loving someone is more important then all the material things that the other one can give you. Believe me .....i know.

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I would love to chat with you more on this. I am going through the same dilemma at age 28!
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Old feelings don't just go away. If anything do not make a commitment to either until you can clearly think. If you are "dreaming" of your ex while seeing someone else you are just going to be confused. If your ex truly cares he will give you time to sort out your feelings. And be honest with your bf, don't stay with him for financial security only. Good luck!

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old feeling dont just go away unless you dont love him the way you say if you do you will always have feeling for him
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Just keep in mind he's your ex for a reason. I don't care what that is, but it made one of you end it. Keep it that way.

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You have to keep in mind that you broke up with your ex for a reason. I'm not sure what the reason was, but he has to prove to you or to provide something for you that he had failed in to in the past. It's almost like saying he must deserve you back, and you are certainly worth it. But you have to decide if he even should waste his time. After all, somebody took his place, who sounds like you have feelings for. But if you ultimately want to give your ex time to prove that he's a dependable boyfriend, then you can't string along the other guy, even if waiting for your ex will leave you single. It's a hard decision, and I think any woman or man would agree to that. I think the key is to know this isn't a decision that needs to be made overnight. And that getting input (both objective and subjective) is a good way to go. Your definitely trying to make a rational, well deserving answer instead of just relying on the emotions alone, which can be confusing enough. Give yourself credit, I think you are going to do the right thing ;)

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My name is judith and i want to testify of the good
work done by a faithful Dr Ogba, a spell caster. in my
life i never thought there is such thing as spiritual
interception. my problem started nine months back
when the father of my kids started putting up some
strange behavior, i never knew he was having an
affair outside our matrimonial home. it dawn on me
on that faithful day when he came to the house
to pick his things that was when i
knew that situation has gotten out of hand and he
then told me he was quitting the marriage which i
have built for over five years, i was confused and
dumbfounded i called on family and friends but to no
avail. two months after i started having problem with
my kids welfare rent-age and all of it, i really went
through hell. until a day i was browsing on the
internet and i happen to meet a spell caster i never
believed on this but i needed my man back so i gave
the spell caster my problem at first i never trusted
him so i was just doing it but you know a problem
shared is half solved him told me not to worry that my
husband will come back to me after 3 days my husband
called me telling me that he his coming back home and that
was all. now we are living happily together if you have the same problem contact him on this email: ogbapaullovespellcaster@gmail.com

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If you are honest with yourself and you know you are just settling for your current boyfriend, then that would pose another problem. As the saying goes, an ex is an ex for a reason and just because you may still care for an ex doesn't change those reasons. Some people can change, but don't think the grass is greener on the other side because it seldom is. Having a steady job, nice car, etc. doesn't make the perfect man. It all comes down to your heart and who you are most happiest with. After all, it is YOUR heart and YOUR life. Don't just settle for anyone when God's blessing could be out there waiting for you.

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Well, now I don't have either of them. It's my fault. I know it. But thankfully I'm okay with being alone, no matter how tough it will be.
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After being in relationship with my husband for nine years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email is (LAVENDERLOVESPELL@YAHOO.COM } tel.+2347053977842) you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything.
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Well first I don't think your ex or you have any business putting your current boyfriend in this spot. That isn't right any way you look at it. Second, how do you know this guy can't make happy? Trust me honey, you'd be surprised how much more you learn about a person after only a month. I'd say, tell your ex to back off, you made a commitment to your man now and you should honor it. Your ex had a shot to show you his worth, doesn't this current guy deserve the same?

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The first thing you need to understand is that it is not a man's job to "take care of you." You are an adult and are responsible for yourself.

I think it's wrong to take a guy back after a break-up. I have never played the break up and make up game. That's for teenagers, not adults. Your ex has already had his chance, and he blew it. The new guy deserves to be treated with respect and kindness, and you should give him a chance.

Don't you think it's kind of strange that your ex just happened to show up right at the time when you have a new man? Don't you think it might be that he doesn't really want to be with you, but he just doesn't want anyone else to have you? Think about this carefully before you allow this guy to show up and ruin your new relationship. Guys can be pretty strange when they get into issues of power and control.

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you are so write . you are a grown women you dont need no man to take care of you
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That's right Jakayla. I wish that more women could understand that. They would be so much happier in their lives.
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I had a problem with my boyfriend 6 months ago, which lead to our broke up. When he broke up with me, i was not myself again; i fill so empty inside me. Until a friend of mine told me about a spell caster who helped her in the same problem too. i email the spell caster and i told him my problem and i did what he asked of me, to cut the long story short. Before i knew what was happening, not up to 48 hours, my boyfriend gave me a call and he come back to me and told me he was sorry for everything that happen,i am so greatful to this spell caster and will not stop publishing his name on the net for the good work he is doing.If you need his help,you can email him at onimalovespell@gmail.com and he will also help you too Dr Kasee of onimalovespell@gmail.com i will forever be greatful to you.
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well ask yourself can you see yourself with him a family and kids follow your heart

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i have a boyfriend but my ex still flirts with me but my bf not fine with tht
if i was you just say to your ex gf or bf no im with someone at miniute well my ex aways ask me out again i just say i no im to young for a boyfriend yet!

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My name is Mr john live in Indonesia and I’m happily married with a lovely wife and three children.I had a very big problem with my wife few months ago,to the extent that she even packed her things away from me and my kids for almost 5 months,and i tried all my possible best and effort to bring her back,but all to no avail.I discussed it with a very good friend of mine,and he gave me an advice concerning a spell caster,and i quote.“There’s someone who can handle your situation,he’s always ready and able to do anything related to spell casting,i will like you to contact him with his email,which is as follows.”Ogbapaullovespellcaster@gmail.com I never believed in spell casting,but he convinced me and i had no choice than to follow his advice,because i never dream of loosing my lovely wife.And that’s how i contacted him with his email address,and i discussed with him and so surprisingly,he told me that I’ll get my wife back a day after.so i never believed,until when i got home,the next day,my wife called me to inform me that she was coming back…..So amazing!! That’s how i got my wife back through spell casting and our relationship was now stronger than how it was before.One of the price i was asked to pay was to tell it to people around me that problems like this,can always be solved by “Dr Ogba ShiRINE”. So! my advice for you out there is to visit this same website,and tell him your pros too,if you are in any condition related to love issue or getting your ex back,to have a happy family.THANKS……0GBAPAULLOVESPELLCASTER@gmail.com
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I want to use this opportunity to thank Dr. Shiva for helping me to get my boyfriend back after he left me 4 months ago. I have sent friends and my brothers to beg him for me but he refused and said that its over between us but when I met this Dr. Shiva he told me to relaxed that every thing will be fine and really after 2 days my boyfriend come back to me and beg me to forgive him.Just in case anybody need his help email him at: reunitingexspell@yahoo.com

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i was have misunderstand with my husband for not have a child

for him over 8years of marry then my husband left me to

another woman aside then i was crying over and over till i met

a friend of mine who Dr greathope helped to get pregnant after

1 mouths and 2 weeks, Dr greathope ask me to go for test and

the Doctor confirm it that i am pregnant that is how today i

am a woman to my husband,email him

via:greathopespell71@gmail.com
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glory be to Dr ogudu for the marvelous job in my life, my husband pack out of the house and move to a friend house known that he has an affair with another woman, then i was pain and tears till i met this great man Dr ogudu, who cast a spell on him to come back to me within 4days, thank you Dr ogudu, here is email address:oguduspell@gmail.com

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RACHAEL

my name is Rachael, i want to give a testimony about this great spell caster who restored joy in my life, my wife left me to another woman aside till i met Dr ogudu who brought her back to me within 74hours thank you father for helping me ,reach him via email address:oguduspell@gmail.com
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Hello, I'm Matt and I want you to share a good testimony of the great man. I thought many times before i contact him. Dr Abby of Sacred Spiral Goddess Temple itself is NOT evil.
After been scam by lot of spell caster's promising me false hope not knowing all they really wanted was my money. My sincere apologies.

I contacted Dr Abby because my personal life was upside down. My wife and I separated 2 months ago and we have 2 kids. we had a relationship for 11 years and now she is falling in love with another man after 11 years of marriage, my wife was going in the wrong direction. He got attracted by a mysterious colleague man at work and moved with him for 4 months. But after i meet Dr Abby, Within 36 hours my whole story got turn around and things started to be as before. She's back to the house saying she doesn?t know what happened, and she was sorry about leaving. Our relationship is stronger than ever. I have no words to thank you enough.
You can contact him on ( sacredspiralgoddesstemple@gmail.com )

Matt from Manchester

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i am Paula Rodway, i am hear to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for more than 3 years and we have two kids, thing were going well with us and we are always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. later that month he did not come home again and he called me that he want a divorce, I asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce and that he hates me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do, i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my friend and she told me to contact a spell caster Dr. Ukusebor, i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing due to how i love him i quickly do sowithout hesitation, and i went to try if something good will come out of it. I contacted Dr. Ukusebor, for the return of my husband to me, he told me that my husband have been taken by another woman that she cast a spell on him that is why he hates and the kids, and also want us to divorce. then he told me that he have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, he instructed me on how to go about it and cast the spell and after 3 days my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he love me, and he did not know what happen to him that make him left me. it was the spell that the Dr. Ukusebor shrine casted on him that made him come back to me, today me and my family are now happy again. thank you Dr. Ukusebor for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your help. i want you out there who are passing through this kind of love problem of getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend and girlfriend to contact Dr. Ukusebor via email (ukuseborspellcaster@gmail.com) and
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My Name is Ms. Olivia mike, I was married to my husband for 13 years and we were both bless with three children, living together as one love, until 2009 when things was no longer the way the was [when he lost his job]. But when he later gets a new job 6 months after, he stated sleeping outside our matrimonial home. Only for me to find out that he was having an affair with the lady that gave he the job. since that day, when i called him, he don't longer pick up my calls and he nothing since to come out good. Yet my husbands just still keep on seeing the lady. Until I met a very good friend of my who was also having a similar problem, who introduced me to a very good love spell caster. But i told her that if it has to do with things that i am not interested, but she said that it has nothing to do with pay first. but the only thing he was ask to do was just to go and buy the items to cast the spell, and that was what she did. And she gave me the spell caster e-mail address and phone number. When i contacted him, i was so surprise when he said that if i have the faith that i will get my husband back in the nest three [3] day, and off which it was really so. but i was so shock that i did not pay any thing to Dr.Justus, but my husband was on his knells begging me and the children for forgiveness. This testimony is just the price i have to pay. This man Justus is good and he is the author of my happiness. His e-mail phone number ,drabeljustus@gmail.com,
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This is my testimony about the good work of a man who helped me..My name is Olivia mike, and I base in London.My life is back!!! After 8 years of marriage, my husband left me and left me with our three kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. Thanks to a spell caster called papa Justus who i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I was searching for a good spell caster that can solve my problems. I came across series of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. There was one particular testimony I saw, it was about a woman called grace,she testified about how papa Justus brought back her Ex lover in less than 72 hours and at the end of her testimony she drop papa Justus e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give papa a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 3 days, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before. papa Justus is really a talented and gifted man and i will not to stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man...If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve that problem for you. Try the great papa Justus today, he might be the answer to your problem. Here's his contact:
drabeljustus@gmail.com Thank you great Justus. Contact him for the following:

(1)If you want your ex back.
(2) if you always have bad dreams.
(3)You want to be promoted in your office.
(4)You want women/men to run after you.
(5)If you want a child.
(6)[You want to be rich.
(7)You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever.
(8)If you need financial assistance.
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10)Help bringing people out of prison
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who ever is reading this testimony today should please celebrate with me and my family because it all started like a joke to some people and others said it was impossible. my name is Mandy Divanna i live in USA i am happily married with two kids and a lovely husband something terrible happen to my family along the line, i lost my job and my husband packed out of my house because i was unable to take care of me and my kids at that particular time. i manage all through five years, no husband to support me to take care of the children and there come a faithful day that i will never forget in my life i met an old friend who i explain all my difficulties to, and he took me to a spell caster and the name of the temple is called, Ukaka greatspelltemple, i was assure that everything will be fine and my husband will come back to me after the wonderful work of Ukaka greatspelltemple, my husband came back to me and today i am one of the richest woman in my country. i advice you if you have any problem email him with this email: freedomlovespell@hotmail.com and you will have the best result. take things for granted and it will be take from you. i wish you all the best.

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Hello friend's i have a good news to share, my name is DILARA, am from united state, i want to use this medium to thank Priest Crunkawi for what he did for my family, i was facing a lot of problem's since i got married to my husband, my son was in jail, i lost my job and my husband left me for another women, i thought this was the end of the world, i told my friend the problem's am facing she introduce me to Priest Crunkawi, and when i contacted Priest Crunkawi he to me what to do and also assist me in fasting and praying and consultation with his gods he gave me some substance's, and i applied the substance's in my going out and coming day by day for a week, i did as directed by Priest Crunkawi, on my greatest surprise my son was released from jail and i got a job worth $2300 and my husband called me and begged for reconciliation, am now living happily with my husband and my son and the new job, you can contact him for any problem you are facing SPIRITUALLY and PHYSICALLY via email: matsoncrunkawi1965@yahoo.com

HE CAN SOLVE ANY PROBLEM YOU ARE FACING, CONTACT HIM FOR SOLUTION'S.

(1) Spiritually
(2) Physically
(3) Mentally
(4) Emotionally

matsoncrunkawi1965@yahoo.com

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DR.LOVESPELL brought back my lover when others failed he is the best spell caster on planet earth.
I had contacted several spell casters to help bring back my lover after he left me and my son for 2 yrs and moved in with another woman they usually promise and at the end fail.
I was on the street and a lady was sharing this hand bill so i collected one and the content was about this spell caster that brought back her lover and also in the hand bill she said she is sharing the hand bill to raise awareness that there are still real spell casters and also as a way to thank the great spell caster DR.LOVESPELL.
So contacted him and after 24 hrs my whole story changed my husband who had left without any reason came back.I amusing this post as my own hand bill to tell people how great DR.LOVESPELL is and also to share his contact with the whole world.his email:lovespellpower@hotmail.c om for your solutions or call +2348104004707.

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hello, Am so grateful to the great [muzukaspell temple] who has brought back happiness to my life,At first i taught he was a scam,Because i saw a

testimony about muzukaspell temple how he helped someone in bringing back her ex within 48 hours,anyway i decided to give [muzukaspell temple] a

chance in bringing back my lover back to me who left me for 3 years. the [muzukaspell temple] told me what to do which i did in other to get my lover

back. when i was through with what he asked me to do he said my lover will come back to me soon,So really in 48 hour i got a call form Clark saying

he was sorry that he will do any thing i want just for me to accept him back. my friends you wont believe what happen, he Bought me a diamond ring

and engaged me the very day he came. i was shout of world and so grateful to the [muzukaspell temple]. Please in-case you are in need of help, you

can contact him at [muzukapelltemple@gmail.com]

i am very sure that he wont fail you. i bet my life on it.and also you can contact him for any other personal issues.

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Thank you Dr.Okakagbe for taking time to do the spell for bringing my husband back to me. I went to 3 different spell casters, but only you got the job done. I really wasn’t sure anymore if spells were real, but now I know they are. Like I said before I appreciate all your time, effort, and energy you put during the spell cast. He is more open and he admitted he loves me and more than ever before now my husband is back again. After 6months of separation. We are now back together, we both live happily. thank you Dr. Okakagbe you can also reach him for help.Obalaspelltemple@gmail. com or call +2348163395533

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what a good man who help me with a free spell,my name is Richard Allen,hello the people of united stated i want to thank this great man who help me to get back my lover who divorce me,Just because i was not able to get pregnant for him,so nobody in is family like me everyone hate me so my husband was have a relationship outside our marriage,my husband did not love me again he was take me for granter just because i was not have able to have a child for him,and my husband was a every rich man who have a lot of company in different countries he was desperate to have a child that was when he divorce with me that he want to get married to another woman who he said that she is medical okay,i try to talk to him that God time is the best he said no that after 13 years of marriage that he has not to show for it,after the divorce, i was at my house when i was listing to the radio when a man was give a testimony about this great dr ogogodu who help him to get back is wife and he was not able to get a woman pregnant but this great dr ogogodu help him to

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