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How do you ever-so-nicely dump a guy who is crazy in love with you? I feel like he might hurt me if I break up with him

He is almost "too" crazy in love with me. But I don't feel the same way

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Every break up hurts if they really care about you maybe you should explain to him your not interested in dating anymore nice as possible if you think he might hurt you i would just do it over the phone/text or have someone with you when you end it face to face you can also push him away little by little those aren't the best ways to end a relationship but it's for your own protection so that's what I recommend

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If you really think he is dangerous, I would suggest that you start to get loose little by little. Do not break it all once until you have distanced. If you break it now, he might turn violent.

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Try to show that your not interested, do this for a while then break up with him. If you feel that he might hurt you have a friend with you when you dump him. Hope things work out for you.

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Tell him you need time to focus on school he'll be sad either way but if you dont want him you have to dumb him

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If you think he will hurt you then go with a friend to break up with him and try not to be alone until you feel safe

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tel him that you are already in love with someone..

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Be distant and try not to be very interested in him. Don't ignore him though, just kinda drift away and make it seem like you aren't interested in him. I know this works because I've had to let a few guys down that proposed to me. Try to always have an excuse to leave also, and don't act like you hate him or anything, just disinterest.

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Thank you! This really helped
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No problem :)
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