Tell your parents during a conversation but don't make it obvious but start talking about baby stuff and how you were born and ask them about what you should do I'm not really sure but that's what I would do
if your parents know suggest to them having teen parent counseling together. If they dont know, tell them. immediantly. if the father will, ask him, his parents, and your parents to go to counseling. Talk to your school counselor or a therapist. dont freak out.
Of course keep the child. That is the one thing that is awful, taking the life of an innocent baby. Just stay calm. Tell your parents. You will be doing a lot of growing up in this next year or two. You will get through this and your not alone!
Tell your mom.She can help also abortion and adoption are always answers not that I am for it but some people are but I am not against it Grrrrrr Hard subject but pray to God and he will help you through.
This is something you must decide on your own. Get information on adoption (as you are adopted you know it can be great), abortion, or keeping your baby. Your local planned parenthood or itsyoursexlife.org will have information on all subjects. Once you find what you are leaning towards get your support systems in place. Talk to your mom and your friends but don't let them decide for you! Good luck.
Tell your parents. First of all. No abortion that's murder. If you don't think you can handle raising a child (and you probably can't at 14) there are a lot of people who want to adopt. Take good care of yourself, you're growing a life!!
Well, stay calm and try to relax. Only you know who u are, you cant let any one decide this i have been on both sides of the fence i have a six year old son who is my world and i also had a abortion last year and that was extremely hard to deal with and i was 28 so baby take it from me think long and hard, talk with your folks if yall don't have tht kind of relationship use a counselor at your school as a mediator(or someone u can trust) Also having a baby doesn't reck ur life either bt u will quickly mature and will have to positively find another way to handle ur buisness. But pray, and follow only YOUR spirit.:)
Well there are a lot of answers been posted so I'm not going to add to it, but I would like to say, all you young ladies out there please make sure you are protected before and during sex. This is a life changing situation !!
My mother gave birth to me at the tender age of 14 (she got pregnant her first time when she was only 13). I BEG you, consider adoption. It's so much harder than you think raising a child. I ended my mothers childhood and she's kind of resented me my whole life. She gave me to my grandmother to raise when she left home at 17. I'm now 35, she's 50, and our relationship is tenuous at best. She's more like an older sister who doesn't like me very well and keeps me at an arms length. I realize none of this is my own fault, but I can actually understand why she doesn't love me. She tries, but it's so obvious. She didn't even come to my wedding. PLEASE consider adoption. You have no clue what you'll be giving up. Babies are wonderful...when you're ready for them. When you're not they're a huge inconvenience and pain in the backside. Good luck to you.
Idk ask your parents. And don't abort YOUR baby. Or adopt. YOU wanted to have sex, So YOU get to take care of YOUR baby. You think you're old enough to have sex but not old enough to be a woman and tell your parents. Smh...
Do not get an abortion Because your baby could be the next president, greatest thinker, scientist , or doctor I emplore you please do not get an abortion if you can not keep the baby give it to your adopted parents or at least up for adoption Or a family friend that you trust so you can atleast see your baby grow up
Ok first this is serious right is not a joke , If is not a joke calm down , talk to the father if is a criminal tell your parents ,If they love you they will support you , try to find a job like a babysitter because you are not 16 , try to save much as you can , to support your self and the baby , and the doctor bill , when you are enough age like 18 and you don't have a job or your parents dont support you go to the social services the are gonna help you a lot , and ABORT is not an option , stick to your mind that is not an option if not you are gonna be a murder and when you are an adult you will see you like a murderer . Everything is gonna be just fine. Believe me theres a lot of people like you out there that survive , your problem , and if you dont keep the baby , make sure that you give it to the right person .
You need to tell your parents, right now. I know you're scared and confused and feeling all kinds of mixed up, crazy feelings. Don't make ANY decisions about anything until you have sorted all those feelings out. If you know how to pray--or even if you don't, pray. Right now, the only thing you need to ask God to do is to help you--and He will. I will keep you, and your baby, and the baby's father, and all your families, in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you all.
well depending where you live, you consider staying healthy, happy, and accept help from those that care to lend it. When the baby arrives, my wife and I would be honored to raise that child while always maintaining contact with all involved.
Oh my. My heart breaks for you. I also got pregnant at 14, I kept my little girl and enjoyed it very much. But i do know why it's not for everyone. I am 30 now and my daughter is 14. To this day the hardest thing I had to do was tell my parents that I was pregnant. Your parents can react in different ways, helping you,kicking you out, getting mad and resentful. No way is really known. The one thing you really need to know is that it is your decision. But this will impact the lives of everyone around you, your family, friends, the father and especially your child. The one thing I wish I had known was what I was in for, then again if I did I may not have had my life with my beautiful girl. good luck to you and if you want more advice or someone to talk to let me know.
If you're scared of your parents don't be. They might be upset for a while but they do have your best interest at heart. They love you and will help you through it. Keep the baby and at least give him/her up for adoption. Speaking from experience I can't have children and there are many people out there wanting babies from anywhere. Keep your head up and know that it is ultimately your decision! Good luck to you and your little one!!?
you could harm you and the baby if you wait and try to hide this matter without going to doctor visits.think very hard about what to say but its very important to tell your parents by waiting your losing time on getting ready for the baby and although you might be so scared its the right thing to do .keep strong no matter what and try to stay positive:)
what are u doing having sex at 14 anyways..? curiosity comes with consequences. i applaud u though for not thinking about aborting the baby. (i hope not.) it's too soon to grow up but at this situation u have no choice but to grow. get all the support that u need and take of ur baby.
I also got pregnant at 14 i told my mom threw a text and brought friends home with me lol. but now im 17 live with my daughter and her dad and now we got a 2 month old and i go to college. but it is scary and it will be hard at first but ur parents will help u threw it if they really care which im sure they do. it will all be okay just got to let them know as soon as u can
remember this is a scared teenager, please tell her logical things. killing an unborn child is bad, talk to your parents and see if they will help and understand. this things happen, there is always adoption sweet heart, if you are not ready for a child, there are loving people out here that would love a child that cant have any.