I agree with Bobby 100%, the ONLY reason to run after him is for child support, Honey, face it the baby isn't even here yet , and he had deserted you and his own flesh and blood!!! Don't waste any more time on him. Spend your time and energy on running after the Lord, he is the only man that will never desert you, he already knows what you are going through and have yet to endure, take his hand and hold tightly for he will strengthen you, comfort you and guide you through this journey you are about to embark on called motherhood. God will provide. You and baby will be fine .
Depends on your ages. In some states it could be considered rape even if you agreed. You may need to talk with your parents. Police and lawyers may need to be informed. You also need to see a Dr to make sure that you are getting the right nutrition for a healthy child.
In my opinion, if he knew that you were pregnant and he still left you, he is an irresponsible jerk! but anyways don't run after him, i know that you might really love him and stuff, but you can't force a guy to love you or be with you. there are lots of single moms in this world and you are not going to be the last one. there are also plenty of guys who accept a woman with a child that isn't theirs. GOOD LUCK:)
Don't run after him if he truly cares about u he'll come back. I'm in the same situation as u--i'm a single parent of a 16yr&13yr old & i've made it just fine! There's alot of single parent households--wat u need to remember is--stay focused,dedication,motivation,&believe in ur self that u CAN take care of ur baby all on ur own. You also have to keep in mind even if it doesn't work out between the two of u, make an attempt to allow your child to establish a relationship with him cause u don't want ur baby asking "who's my daddy" later in life. And if he refuses to do that,then at least u can tell ur child later in life why he was never there. If I can take care of two kids on my own then I know u can. Keep ur faith in the lord because I know he was there with me every step of the way!:-) good-luck.
I was some what reluctant to answer this question but your cry for help tugged on my compassionate heart. Monkeysox I took the time to read all the other answers to your question and stumbled up on your age and I also discovered that you have a 9 year old child. You also asked the ask.com community should you run after the guy that impregnated you? In opinion (((Yes))) you should run after him with with a lawyer right beside you and with a subpoena for a maternity test in your hand demanding child support. I want to ask you one question before I go, when you and him walked in to the room and the lights were turn off did you have to run after him at that moment? ((( I DON'T THINK SO!!! ))) Well" don't start chasing him now. The best of wishes from Bobby :0)