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lollipops_sugar: 1 year ago

What are some signs for breakup?

I feel like things are not going so great because my boyfriend wants to get physical and u don't at least not before marriage I'm not crazy right

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FatKenney: 1 year ago

I agree that can be problematic but I wouldn't break up with him just for that. It's natural for guys to want to be physical, we're mostly big piles of raging testosterone. But don't compromise on your principles to keep him either. If he's willing to respect your position and stay with you then keep him. If he threatens to break up with you for not getting physical let him go.

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elefantlvr: 1 year ago

You took the words right out of my mouth lol.

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bUlLeTpRoOfLoVe: 1 year ago

I really like ur answers a lot!u r great...

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lollipops_sugar: 1 year ago

Thnx but like he hasn't mentioned anything it's just that I could sense tension after he kisses me in my room and then I say like dude stop wen he reaches for my shirt I kind of feel bad cuz he's like so sweet and we have been a couple for so long would u be upset if ur girlfriend said no and like why doesn't he just propose????

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FatKenney: 1 year ago

It's normal for your guy to experience tension. Guys get physical urges even when they've made up their minds to behave. It was the same for my wife and I back when we were dating. We were both committed to waiting until we were married. That didn't stop me from having the physical desire to tear her clothes off. I just didn't act on that desire. And by the way, it was worth waiting for. Stick to your convictions.

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mikala53: 1 year ago via iPhone

Listen to FatKenny. I couldn't have said it better myself.

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Nkathers: 1 year ago

In my view, no one should force you, especially in a relationship to do anything that you are not ready for. This is because you also need to have a say in your relationship. Break up signs vary like not speaking to each other, always fighting, not being able to stand each other, and feeling fed up without wanting to work things out except by leaving.

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horsedreamer: 1 year ago

No youre not crazy you should wait on the s** till youre maryed

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ultimateWaverider: 1 year ago

Stay the kind of girl he'd take home to his mother and not just his bed.
Keep your self respect.

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