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Hi, i meet this guy i really like but the thing is i met his friend before him. His friend and i was just hanging out and stuff, but as i got to know him i knew i didn't like him like that.So i went out clubbing one night with my friends and he was there, the guy i like. He asked me if i wanted to look for his friend, so i said yeah. We couldn't find him anywhere, so we just hung out. We was just talking, when he leaned over and kissed me. I was so surprised but i just kept on kissing him. He told me i was beautiful :). He is in the army, so he gave me his dog tags. He was so nice to me, we just talked until 6 in the morning. Through the night he kept asking me if i liked his friend, i said not like that. I told him i don't think he likes me like that also. So he gave me good bye kiss and we went our separate ways. So now his gone and i can't stop thinking about him. I'm waiting for him to contact me,but it's hard not contact him first I found out that his friend hooked up with someone that night. Do you think if he doesn't contact me, then he just wasn't interested? Or he thinks i like his friend? Should i contact him if he doesn't? Or move on? Thanks


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if he doesnt contact you! well u should contact him and then see were u stand in the line of the relationship

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Personally, I think that you should give him time to contact you before you cut off his advances to you. His kissing you that night shows that he has feelings for you, so just be patient and see what happens.

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It depends on his true personality in my opinion. If he is like a few of my friends he wouldn't talk to you first because it would be considered "homie hopping" which is kind of looked down on by guys. But if you two just talked till 6 am then I would try contacting him after about 2 weeks if he doesn't get ahold of you.

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if you like him just call him,why think so much???

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Move on.It really seems thqat u have a thing with him and not his friend.

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if u really do like him, contact him. there is really nothing wrong with that........... just make sure he likes u back in return.

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Please contact him....I'm a a man who was in the army 24 years ago and I missed my girl so much and letters and phone calls kept us in touch...Now we are married with four children and very happy.

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If a guy wants to contact you nothing is going to stop him! If he wanted to find out if you were interested/ with this other guy he could easily find out. It sounds like he liked you but he is busy, away. Don't second guess him, if you want to contact him to say hi that would be ok, but his reaction might not be what you expect. Good luck!

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Yeah that what was i thinking, if he was so interested he would have contacted me. I like him but i don't want to contact him and be the annoying girl!
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You are smart! You know the game and you aren't psycho ; ). You could just say hi, it's up to you, personally I wouldn't, but then again it could lead to something you might have missed. I can't see myself chasing after a guy, but that's me. I think if he's interested he calls, regardless of obstacles.
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