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Ok my boyfriend just told me that he thinks its better if we see other people, and then i caught him texting my Bff!?

what should i do?

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Your boyfriend, without saying it in so many words, is moving on-he no longer wants to be serious with/date just you. Don't make a fool of yourself by begging & crying-hold your head up high as you walk away. There's another guy out there who would just LOVE to have you as his girlfriend. Don't play childish games like texting HIS best friend. And despite what some people say, friends do NOT always stick around for a lifetime-friends are the ones most likely to give you the shaft, to tell the truth. To heck with both of them-you just go on with your life.

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That is another person !!!! Isn't it ????

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what? no, I ...am me?
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Yea but not your best friend that's just weird.
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Start txting he's best friend and do the same to him

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but wouldnt that be wrong? i dont really want to stoop to his level, hes not that cool.
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then just forget about him! You'll find someone worth your time soon enough
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In my opinion not really cus your kind of teaching him a lesson not to mess with you like that and pluss he shouldn't mess with you like that anyway
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oh, thats not what i mean, i mean sure hell learn his lesson, but will it even be from me? thats a good question, i hope he learns a lesson from me now...
anyway yeah ima just play the stay away game and hope he never comes back to haunt me again :).
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but great imagination on what i should do, i never thought of getting even till you said so.
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Guys will come and go but girlfriends are for a lifetime. Talk to her.

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talk 2 ur boyfriend

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dont freak. try to figure it out by talking to him or her. try to do it without losing your temper

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nah im chill dawg, shiiii im just gonna wait till hes crawling back, isnt that what your suposed to do, kick em while their down? or is it let sleeping dogs lie? i dunno, forgot ://.
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i think its sleeping dogs lie.....well why not try finding a new man?
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that's what i would do just find a new man
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exactly
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yep
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Well if she is a true BFF she will tel him to hit the road! Girl code you do not date your BFF ex boyfriends! EVER!

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yeah girl code! go us girls, lol!
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I say dump them both!
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Forget about him . There is plenty of fish in the sea , so there's no need to chase him down if he wants to see other people. if your friend wants to date your ex , let her . your ex was nice about letting you down , it's better he told you than faking that he likes you . good luck :~)

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nah i saw on his phone :/, but like i said hes old news haha :D ima go find some new hot guy to take his place probably lol, but you know they can look and no touchie? idk :P im just gonna do whateva ;).
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Lmfao " I'm gonna find a hot new guy"
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Always make sure with your best friends that the girl code is in place. No dating my ex and remaining friends with me.

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i dont think she will care about girl code for very much longer, sadly... D:, its ok thow, i still care! WHOO! go us girls!
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Just ignore him and get a better boyfriend. The ones who cheat get beat! :)

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with sticks and stones! YEAH!
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starting talking to his best friend or just make him jealous

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your comments are always getting removed lol
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what the H-E-double hockey sticks man! this web sites defected thats all, man i wish this was myspace, just with a little ask questions search box!
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you mean Facebook an i know the website is so what was the comment you put on here that got removed but put it in different word an in a better way
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Ah! Hormone activity again.. When does it all stop?

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break up with him

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Ask your bf if your boyfriend is texting her about a relationship then if he really is break up with him.Hope its not as bad as you think though.

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