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tasmira: 1 year ago

What does it mean when your boyfriend doesn't say "i love you" even when you are 7 months into the relationship?

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FarmerGirlMaryJo: 1 year ago

Some guys have a really tough time with those three little words. If he shows you that he loves you, actions are so much more important than words. I'd rather have a guy who couldn't say those words, yet showed me his love rather than a guy who constantly professed his love and treated me like dirt. That said, it is really nice to hear... maybe you need to find a good time to ask him to share with you what is in his heart.

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carlcab: 1 year ago

it could mean anything or nothing at all - he might be raised that way or gay or a user and not in love - who knows and we could speculate for days --- call him and ask him and then let us know .... or you could call me and just forget about him

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tasmira: 1 year ago

I am afraid that if i ask him about it i would scare him away... why are guys so hard to understand?

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carlcab: 1 year ago

there not - he is

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Clemence: 1 year ago

In my view, I think that it means that he isn't ready to say those words to you yet. It could also mean that he is taking his time getting to know you better before he confesses his love. If you love him, you should be patient with him and not rush him into anything.

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TexasDogMom: 1 year ago

True love does not happen in such a short period of time, Tasmira. It could be that your boyfriend knows this and is not in any hurry to plunge headlong into a "love relationship." It could be that he doesn't feel that way. You won't know until he tells you, so ask him some evening when y'all are cuddling.

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marsbars187: 1 year ago via Android

Y shld he have to say he loves u its only been 7mos. Ur trippin get a grip or ur dudes gonna drop ur A$$. He's not obligated to love u n seem young dnt get too attatched u never knw what will happen to ur relationship

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jvcamarena8: 1 year ago via Android

Ikr marsbars

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tasmira: 1 year ago

but 7 months is long enough to know whether you're really in to the person or not dont you think? and we are not young anymore to not know ourselves. he has been to a lot of relationships.

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jvcamarena8: 1 year ago via Android | Last edited at 1:16AM on 4/20/2012

7months isn't long enough doll btw actions speaks loader than the word itself trust me doll :))) give it time lQQk at it this way would u like it if he blurted it out ALL the time n NEVER showed u in action that he does I think this gentleman knows the THE VALUE.of the word r is insecure r was never taught too b verbally r physically affectionate love is something earned n given n not too just blurt out but too show in action btw I think u shouldn't nag the poor guy about it because u may push him further away guys don't like nagging just sayinn :))) best of luck between u 2 lovebirds

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Kathy2kathy: 1 year ago

green;:)

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jvcamarena8: 1 year ago via Android

Awe thanks Kathy doll :))) How have u been

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tasmira: 1 year ago

this one makes me feel better. oh no i am not nagging him about it. thanks a lot!

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marlakay: 1 year ago via iPhone

Be patient - kind & loving. Wait it out for at least a year or more. When he finally says it, it will be genuine. No woman wants a fake "I love you"....that ruins the real one that may be coming later. Good luck!

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rshackleford: 1 year ago via iPhone

It means he is being honest and not just telling you what you want to hear.

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tasmira: 1 year ago

oh thank you. now i can sleep peacefully :-).

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