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Im not bragging, but why is it SO HARD to find a girlfriend? im 21 and i havent had a relationship in well over 3yrs, please need advice!!!!

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It takes time & location & chance to meet the right lady !! Be a good guy , and
it will happen when time allows !! Good luck !

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i really hope so :/ oh well lets just wait and findout, thaks
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be nice

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It is never hard to get a girlfriend; it is just hard to get one with everything you are looking for. People look for different things in others and perhaps you are looking for a perfect woman; you aren't going to get one ever. Compromise is the key here because you can be sure whoever you meet will see some things in you that she doesn't like.

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I beg to differ
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dont try as hard as you may be. a real relationship will come to you at the most unexpected time. as mine did 3 years ago and now Im married and have a set of twins. and beauty really is only skin deep so dont just pass someone up if the my Have or may not have something you like :)

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i guess your right, im kinda trying too hard cause it really sucks being single and i just want that one person by my side, eh guess it will come naturally
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I understand what you feel like, I was in a bad relationship when I was 18 and from then till I was 22 before I met my wife at work. I first told her I wasnt looking for a relationship but after seeing how hard she was trying to get me I decided to go with the flow. good luck dude
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Marie30

Stop trying and a gal will come your way as long as you are not to judgmental. Good luck.

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Listen to what a girl has to say with interest. Treat her like a lady. Take her to do fun things. Biking, hiking, movie, out to eat,etc. Put yourself in a position to meet women; church, beach, mall, bars, Barnes & Nobles is a big pick up spot. Be confident.

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Enjoy your freedom and just date around, that's how you stumble upon the right one.

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Kimber1911

It might be that Brut 33 of your dads that's turning them off.

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It is...and no I don't have any. Lol! I was an Elsha guy myself.
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Ask them out and be sweet as cherry pie

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Asking for dating advice is sometimes a bad idea because all girls are different

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LISAMARI13

be yourself an treat them right an you will find the right person 4 you an maybe you are not looking in the right places :)

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Your focused on finding "a situation" (a relationship, a non-descript GF) rather than trying to broaden your social circle & appreciate the people you'd meet -- both male & female -- by doing so.
Take some pressure off yourself; just get out of the house, get immersed in some social activities, & enjoy meeting people!! Eventually, you WILL meet some available ladies!

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Trust God, you don't need a relationship other than God. Perhaps he has chosen for you to be single, perhaps not. The only way to know is to ask Him. :)
Don't search for love, God knows what is best.
Just a tip for moat in you're situation: *Don't lust after women, (not saying you are,) wait for her, the one God has prepared for you.
How would you feel if she was thinking about other guys instead of waiting for you? :)

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