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How do you ask a girl out in a text message?

ha give me something to copy and paste...I can't think of anything to say except for will you go out with me? but that's just kinda lame lol

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You dont

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You will just have to go straight to the point and let her know that you would like to go out with her. If she replies, you can then as her when it may be appropriate for you to pick her up. Make sure that you sound lively in your text just as you would when you were talking face to face.

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Yeah dont say will you go out with me... Say something like you wanna see a movie or something like that... But I would like a guy to say it to my face.

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Me four !! Psycooooo
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Don't do it over a text message.
Do it in person,
it would mean a lot more to her.

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Its best to say it face to face. If your to shy or nervous just call her. Thats alot better then text message. Good luck!

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I think I'll call! Thanks for the help!
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i agree this is the best because asking over text isnt good but if your two nervous in person calling is also good :))
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You don't.

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YOU DONT!! Trust me no girl wants guys who are to afraid to speak face to face! You have to just work up the gut and ask her out in person!!!

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That's is totally true! ;)
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Amen!
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Haha its just how i feel when people ask me out through text :P
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dont do it over text bro. do it in person

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You have to like talk with her like hello then when u have a good conversation you ask her that happened to me and i was like waiting one week for his response

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Girls hate it when a guy likes u but won't talk to them in person!! I would at least call her but if u can get enough guts start talking to her in person and then ask her out in person!!!

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I have the same profile pic. as you... (O_o)
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Say it in person, grow a pair and stop using technology as an excuse

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thats what i'm yelling.
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A pair?
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Dont do it in text.......cuz she might think your joking....its best if you tell her face to face(:

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Shell think ur a coward
Do it face to face

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Just don't! Only a coward does that! Or a player! She'll say no! Ask her in person! What's wrong with "Will you go out with me?"!

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I don't no it just seemed kind of lame I guess u would say? But after reading the comments from other people I guess asking her out in a text is lame anyways...so I'll call her in a little while and ask if she would like to go to the movies and I'll just go with the flow and ask at the right time...
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I would tell her in person. Text isn't always the answer. :). Haha.

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You should ask her face to face .. Better !

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is it sad that i got asked out through a text

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yeah it is...
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You should really try a pick up line.

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Ask her face to face. She'll appreciate it more :)

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Yepers!!!:)
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DO NOT ask ANY girl out through a text, don't matter who she is just do not do it!!!! It's really lame, you can trust me about this... I'm a girl and that's what I think. Ask her face to face, she'll not only appreciate it but she will also think that you are very brave for having the guts to ask her out face to face

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So hey. Do you wanna. Um nm. Was gunna ask if you wanna eat ice cream for Bfast. Ha. What'd ya think?
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Lol sounds good
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U DONT.it makes u seem not brave

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Not brave, nice :)
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thats a better word thanks!
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Talk to her in person and don't say "do you want to go out" say "do you want to go to a movie this _____ night or we could go anywhere you like"
:) good luck

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Don't ask anyone out by text! It just makes us girls be able to say no easily or it makes us think ur a wimp. You could just ask to talk to her alone when you see her next.

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Asking a girl out over text isn't the best thing to do, but you could say something like ' hey , I have something very important to ask you '
She will say what
Then you say
' will you go out with me :) '

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Ask her out in person NOT over a text. You should tell her what you like about her then say will you go out with me or just randomly start talking and bring up the topic. Hope I helped and you don't ask her over the phone.

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It's lame to text message for a date unless you are married.

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DONT...it would provably make the girl question why you didnt have the balls to ask her face to face....

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That is the most disgusting perverted thing I have ever heard. I'm flagging you.
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LOL! luvmeornot. not that.... He doesnt mean it sexually, hes trying to point out hes not man enough.. not um... how the first time i read it. I know it looks wrong. But, read it again.
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As A Girl, Who Has Gone Thru Relationships, Yhu Shouldn't Ask Over Text, It's Kind Of Offensive. Like yoiu're saying That You Were Too Scared To Say It To Her Face, Which Kinds Of Rub Off As She Is Intimidating. So Do It In Person But If You Really Can't Maybe You Shouldd Just Giuve Her Hints That You Liek Her, And Then After That Just Cut Straight To The Point. Cause Then If You Didn't It'll Be Obvious That You're AvoidingThe Topic :]

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xXCourtneyXx

It's better to do it in person.
So it means that you weren't scared to do it.
Suck it up and do it!
Don't be afraid of rejection.
If you do it over messaging or whatever, it won't mean anything to her.

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Usually, when I ask someone out through text, I'm kidding. I wouldn't suggest it.

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DragonGIrl5678

You don't ask a girl out in a text message that's lame. Ask her in person.

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Hey callinga works if he is nervous though
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You dont. You do it in person. Not doing it in person will make her think your not man enough.
My teacher rejected her husband (before married of course) when he asked his friend to ask her to prom instead of him asking her. See, I know that gut feeling too, but, to show a girl you really love her, you must tell her in person.

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how do you know that
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if you are cute (which i hope you are) then tell here in person i you are ugly the don't even bother because she will say no i know it

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You could ask her how many letter are in the alphabet and when she says 26, then you say oh yeah i keep forgetting u r a q t! hahaha maybe then it will give her a hint you like her!

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Hehe thanks that would be a good idea
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ok you NEVER ask a girl out with a text message

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dont text call

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not even!!DO IT IN PERSON!!!:)
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you never do that
ask her around a lot of people

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Dont text or call, TELL HER IN PERSON!!!:)

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okay I say either

A) Ask her out in person( I'm a 14 year old girl and i prefer this.)

or

B) Just tell her how you feel about her and then say will you go out with me.
I hope I helped u !!

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You call her!

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What r u in like 6th grade at least give the girl a call, u'd think she at least deserves that. Whenever guys ask me out like that it's an automatic no!!!!!! Take it from someone with experience with realationships

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Do ask her in text. That shows her you really dont care about her. Shell probably like it better in person because then it shows her your brave and you really do like her.

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you shouldn't ask her out through text. she might think your kidding. she may also think your a wimp because you aren't doing it in person. like, if a guy asked me out through text, I would say no. he's not worth my time if he can't even at least call me.

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its better if you ask in person

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Ummm u dont u assk her in person and she'll know that you are being sincere

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First of all, you didn't meet her through a text.
So, DON'T ask her to date you through a text.

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There is no way to do it in text that won't seem lame- do it in person. everyone knows you don't do it in texts!

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try not to make her feel uncomfortable. take easy and slow. say hey (her name) would you like to go out with me?

if she says no don't get angry or mad because she might be playing hard to get. its not always a good idea to ask her out on a text message. doing it in person shows confidence and bravery. talk to her and get to know her, she might have feelings for you.

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you need to ask her out in person, pull her out of the crowd and look into her eyes and ask her it will make any girl feel mazing

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thats sweet :)
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never go straight to the point, she'll think your anxious. just ask her if there's anyone she's been thinkin about dating. ask her who? and then tell her :)

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face to face iz better than txt

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One you dont you need to look her in the eye and tell her face to face be a man about it and not scared show her that you are the man and you like her dont text her.

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you dont....

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YOU DONT TTT just saying

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If you ask over text, you will probably be rejected. Just don't.

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Hey
you should start by asking her how she feels about you if she says good friends ask if shed like to be more than friends. if she says yes start by telling her how you feel about her and tell her the things you can promise her in a relationship. and how you wont hurt her in anyway.
im a female and this is how i would want to be asked out.

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Don't text it, it's lame ! :{} Tell her in person so she knows you're confident! :)
Xoxo,
ImMrsBieber

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You Neva Ask Out A Gurl In a txt message!

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Its best to ask the girl out in person. Its more effective that she'll say yes, knowing its really you talking, and she can see your expressions. But if you must ask in text message, begin slowly, like talking about her day and how she feels about you. Ask her if she likes you, because you like her, and then ask her out. Never rush into it. Ease your way in.

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just text her and talk and then ask her will u ever go out with me or get a friend to ask her out for you :)

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wow the 2 things everyone else says not 2 do...
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you dont

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lolololol, you don't.

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U just txtz her and as her do u wonna go out with me

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Just ask..but I find that rude!

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You don't that's how! That's a low blow and I would hate to be asked out over text!

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ok never in a text.....bad idea.....ask her to do something go to the park on a walk or whatever THEN tell her

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Just to let you know, asking her out over text is such a bad idea. Girls prefer for you to ask them out in person, or at least over the phone. Don't chicken out and hide behind gadgets. It sucks. My boyfriend first asked me out over text and I said no, and at the beach the next day he got down on one knee and asked me out again. And we've been dating ever since. Learn the rules, hotshot.

Oh, and by the way for future reference: If you ask a girl out over text, you break up with her over text. If you ask her out in person, you break up with her in person. If you ask her out over the phone, you break up with her over the phone. See where I'm going?

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well don't be shy just ask her straight to her face and if it's no be a man and just go on living your life

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dont ask her in txt message ask her in person asking her in person is really romantic and plus if you ask her in txt message that shows that you are shy but asking her out shows your into her like really.

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a text message isn't a way to ask a girl out just be brave and say to her face! if to see you really like her

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u dont, the girl will think ur a jerk, best time to do it is like after school, college, a job, whatever just make sure ur alone, text message sucks dude

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as a girl myself i can tell you now ask her out face to face NEVER ask her out by text or call she will hate you if you do

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u should not ask her out on a phone dude.... most of the girls dont like it.... im experienced... if u wanna go out with her u should have guts to ask her face to face...

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you should never ask a girl out in a text messsege maybe you should call her and ask er it will make things alot better

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well first tell the girl how you feel about her and then see how it goes and then ask her out if you feel its time to ask her okay have fun with that

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Easy. You DON'T ask a girl out on text message!!!! Ask her out in person. If you really like her, do it in person. What girl would want to get asked out over a text message? Ask her in person and bring a rose or something cute like that. That would be perfect. :) good luck!

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yea also if you ask a girl out over text she'll think things about you like that you're too scared or shy to ask her out in person or that you son't want people to know you're going out or something
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it would be more special if you asked her in person ;) ........... unless you are not sure that she does want to got out with you then you just get 2 the point

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you shouldn't ask a girl out over text, they don't like it. but if you're going to just say, "hey will you go out with me" you don't need anything special

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you should tell her how much you think about her and then ask her on a date...but do it face-to-face

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laughfirst your not suppose to ask her out over the phone that is cowardly, but if you have to here are some ways

SHY GIRLS: if she feels shy around you you can't really do anything but let her know that you are always there for her and that you know she is shy but she doesnt have to be shy around you

ANGRY CHICKS: DONT MESS WITH THEM

FLIRTy GIRLS: well if your ugly theres no way.but if your not be very cocky but not annoying cocky just be confident and make her laughf


thank you for taking the time to read it

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You don't

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r u stupid? i think yes.

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You could always just ask her to her face and be humiliated when she rejects you!!

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That's not how you ask a girl out. I know from experience.

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I would ask her in person saying, "Will you go out with me?" but if you are going to text her do the same thing... I wouldn't recommend texting her though. Everything is better in person. :)

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ask her face to face :)

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man up dude!!!!!!!!!!!! talk to her in person!

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I'm a girl and I really like it when boys ask me in person. But if you're too shy then I think you should make sure she likes you back, before embarrassing yourself haha :)
When you find out that she does feel the same way, just text her something like 'I'd really like to hang out sometime. What are you up to this weekend?'
Basically, don't make it too obvious or make it seem like you're desperate because girls automatically assume that you're only after one thing :)
GOOD LUCK

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do it in person!!!!! a guy asked me out over text and i said no over text but maybe if he asked in person. (he never did :( )

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Um.. Dont ever ask a girl out over text. It doesnt end well...
Ask her in person :) Make it meaningful. Not something she does everyday.
I think she'll have more respect for you if you have the guts to ask her in person than over a text. That just shows you have no courage.

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yuh dont. jaja its just not cool.

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Don't do it over a text because that's all she will remember how you asked her out.
Do it in person because that's the best memory girls would like to remember.=)

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well first of all I would recomend in person but if you cant tell her how you feel about her make her feel special and then ask h we r or you can,also try by phone call good luck

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Look in her eyes and say... o wait ur doing it over the phone...be prepared for a NO!

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Don't. Most girls like a guy who has the guts to do it to their face. If you really like her you will ask her in person. Plus it is sooo much harder to say no to a guy's face. Trust me I know.

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You grow some balls and ask her out in person.

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No offense but I am a girl and I really would say no if you did that thru text :( be legit face to face

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How can you say it face to face if you don't arrange to see her? Seriously you people are stupid.

Just write "Hey, how was your day? Would you like to go for a drink?"

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