Your profile pic is of a woman, I assume you are a woman asking this. Why don't you just tell your opinion? I would guess this "comes down", (no pun intended), to a matter of of personal preference. Only you can make the choice. There are good lovers and bad.
Forget the size. Technique will always come first (for lack of a better term). Like I tell my Asian friends, first girl to complain gets the Kung Fu grip! A 2 pump chump with the size your looking for is still a chump. But a decent sized marathon runner...well...this one's gotta run! Good luck to you.