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You've heard the expression "It's better to give than receive"? Well, when it comes to hate, it's better to receive than to give.

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Leave him alone he is not worth your time. there are so many more fish in the sea.

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let it go - just another T.K.O

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move on quickly

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In a perfect world, we would all still be best friends with people after we break up with them, but that is not the case in most circumstances. If he hates you, then that just re-enforces the fact that you are broke up for a reason. The best thing about this is that you no longer HAVE to concern yourself with him UNLESS you choose to. So I say stop worrying about what he thinks about you or anything for that matter :)

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That's the way it should be. I'm still friends with TWO of my Ex's and the Beautiful Mrs.737 is secure ennough in our marriage to be cool with it.
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Indeed.
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Ignore him. That means no stalking, no texting, no smiling across the cafeteria, no asking your friends to go talk to him or talking to his friends to see what he said. Don't torture yourself by trying to be friends with him. He will just dislike you more. Move on, if for nothing else, do it for your own psyche. Pretend like he never existed and still doesn't. And DON'T talk to your girlfriends about your heartbreak... Younger girls have a tendency to try to make things better and they will run up to him and tell him how bad he hurt you and he should talk to you, that will make him mad at YOU! Talk to your mom if you have to get it off your chest.

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1 we don't go to the same skool. 2 I have moved on. 3 I dnt want to date him I jus want him to like me as a friend
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Accept it. He's an ex for a reason. Time to move on.

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Exactly right my friend
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Why thank you sir!
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Well, it shouldn't matter because you've moved on, right?

But I know how it is, stuck on old memories and emotions.
It's hard to do, but forget about him.

Better things to do, better people to see.

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Nice one Lullaby. It is hard to make that clean detatchment from the feelings.
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Thanks. :)
Indeed it is, I have a lot of experience
with the process of detaching from feelings. >w<
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well he is your ex for a reason leave him alone that's probably what he wants stop txting,calling or anything like that

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if he doesnt talk to you or he doesnt like you dont even worry about him... there are plenty of other guys out there that probably want you but you just dont know.. not every guy is going to tell you when they like you so just dont worry about him he is a waste of time

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Now how ironic is that,with your words,and the title of your name...your not best encouragement of knowing what love is...
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If he's your ex it shouldn't matter.

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You say it right ex, so wtf do you worrie about someone that doesn't want you anymore trust me his not going to be at the future with u let him go. Like hi did with you

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Stay away

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Leave him alone, let him go, occupy yourself with other things until ur over him, use your friends for help ... just move on even though I know it's not that simple .. good luck anyway !! :)

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