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What do you do when your friends are making you have to decide between them? (read detail)

I have these two friends who are making me chose between them. like, one of my friends dislikes this other person and I'm best friends with that one person and the one friend who hates the person want me to chose over them then my best friend. I hope this isn't to confusing.

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True friends should not make you choose between them. You need to talk to both of them and let them know that you are their friend and that you do not have to choose between them. Have them understand that it is a hard choice that you are not willing to do.

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I don't know who my true friends are anymore...
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Everybody on Ask.com is your true friend, P.S plead the 5th Amendment
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Been there lol. Well it's a really uncomfortable situation but you need to tell them that you love them and that you're not going to choose between them. Let them fix the situation

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Thanks. And yes it is very difficult and confusing situation.
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You're welcome and just tell them that you are not going to talk to either one of them until they resolve the issue.
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You should not have to lose a friend just because another asks you to .. Tell them it is wrong to make you choose and they should grow up and deal with their own problems

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you can be friends with both; and they should grow up.

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just tell them u cant and walk away it always works

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Friends never make each other choose. So tell them that if they are your friend then they shouldn't make you choose over one . it's not you're fault they don't like each other, so it's not your problem to solve . (math) ;) lol

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Plead the 5th Amendment

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