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If a girl acts weird when she's talking to me or around me does it mean that she has a crush on me?

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It's a possibility, but does she act that way around all guys? If so then she probably doesn't like you and if she doesn't then she does like you. Also if she's telling you to leave you alone and get away from her, stuff like that, she might either actually want that, or she thinks you know she likes you. Hope I helped. Oh and I would ask yourself if you like her before deciding to ask her out.

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no just when she talks to me
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Then she probably likes you and just tells you to go away to confuse you. If you like her back ask her out, if not then just start ignoring her.
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she asked me to go to prom with her; she gave me 5 seconds to agree to go the grad dinner/prom thingy with her and I said yes/ok and she said I didn't agree really. Is going through her time of the month phase?
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one moment she implies that she wants to go to prom with me next moment she goes on her time of the month phase and "run my ass over". why would she ask me if I want to go with her to prom if she doesn't want to go with me? That's just absolutely ridiculous. Is she manipulating or trying to exploit (is she trying to toy with my emotions?)
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by the way she and I have been friends since gr 8's and we're both gr 12's currently
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I think it is her time of the month. Just talk to her about it, I know it will be awkward just ask her if she truly wants to go with you or not and go from there. :)
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Keep me updated please. :)
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by the way she is really pretty.... she's hot
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we're both asians also
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just fyi/interesting fact
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Oh thanks. There's this Asian guy at my school and according to him we are best friends. He's really funny he calls himself Asian Panda and Ching Chong. Another interesting fact. ;)
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ask him out lol
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was that sarcasm?
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it's been a week I haven't be able to reach her online or in person
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*been
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Then just wait until she comes back to school an NO me and Ching are friends, i don't like him that way. :)
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what if I don't see her at school? should I just forgot about her altogether then and hope that she is willing to talk to me?
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*forget
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She accepted my friend request on Facebook. Does this mean anything? Is she just doing this to get it over with or is she doing this because she felt bad of how she treated me last week when we chatted on facebook?
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I tried to post this comment before but it didn't work for some reason
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Oh. I think you should accept and ask her on fb about what's going on. If you wanted to just forget about her, you wouldn't be asking so many people what to do. So don't forget. Talk to her about prom on fb.
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so I talked to her on fb and apparently she said this "sorry im really pissed off right now grumpy mood"
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she's talkin to me but not sayin much
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Maybe she's just nervous. She didn't want to make you mad at the beginning that's why she said she was in a grump mood. What do you mean she's not saying much?
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like short replies
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she only gives short replies when responding to me
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I still think she's nervous. Maybe ask her why she isn't talking to you or explaining everything.
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Did that work?
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haven't tried it out yet
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Well you should. ;) winkie face. Keep me posted.
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she has a new hairstyle and she looks horrible with it
it appears she combed her hair in the shape of a mushroom or something
either she's trying to impress someone or she just trying something new which isn't working
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not trying to be mean but her hairstyle doesn't look good on her I think she looks good when she has a ponytail or the hairstyle she had before whatever it was.
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that was just letting her hair hang down
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Don't tell her that, let he close friends or she'll get mad at you and she was probably trying to make herself look better for you and prom.
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perhaps
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she has started talking to me more recently
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she took a pic inside a subaru and I asked if it was her car or her parents' and she said it was her parents not much of a conversation but better than nothing
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That's good then she's warming up to you. Try to start some more convo. use interesting topics. Ask her about herself like what's her fav food or color or animals. How are you. Just stiff like that.
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I told her about how my friend Edrick still gets spoonfed at the age of 17 by his mom and she said " wtf,how do you even know that?" and then I said he posted it on his wall I bet he feels like a kid again no pun intended I don't know whether to laugh at this or feel sorry for him lol
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* spoonfed medicine
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I told her how Edrick's mom insists on spoonfeeding him with medicine
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all in a fun and joking manner of course
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was thinking about telling her this joke:person A: why are you so conceited and selfish? can't you send me a? thoughtful nice gift for my birthday for once? That would be much appreciated please and thank you!
person B: well fine if it makes you feel better! here it is! open the gift box!
person A: what is it?
person B:? it is an honest mistake! surprise! happy birthday!
person A: why couldn't you give a better gift/present?
person B: oh I don't know! shit happens?!
get it honest mistake trolllollollollol
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was thinking about telling her this joke:person A: why are you so conceited and selfish? can't you send me a thoughtful nice gift for my birthday for once? That would be much appreciated please and thank you!
person B: well fine if it makes you feel better! here it is! open the gift box!
person A: what is it?
person B:? it is an honest mistake! surprise! happy birthday!
person A: why couldn't you give a better gift/present?
person B: oh I don't know! shit happens?!
get it honest mistake trolllollollollol
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No I don't really get it but maybe she will. You don't have to tell her jokes though, if you want to that's fine but don't think you have to. Just start small talk. Most Girls like to talk about themselves.
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I don't really get most jokes so don't feel bad.
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In the last 4 days, I've had 3 conversations with her on facebook. She seems more comfortable in talking to me now. I ask her about the spring concert at my school and she ask me about why I didn't join band this year and I told her that I didn't want to join because I didn't want to make an absolute fool out of myself.
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I said still have the black sweater that I ordered last year for advanced band the black and white sweater with my name on it never acutally wore it for a concert
it's collecting dust in one of my drawers

and she said: my friend jenny has mine
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well actually she said Jenny has mine so I was just paraphrasing what she said.....well sorta
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our friendship seems to be improving since we haven't talk at all before apr; befor april the last time we talk to each other was on facebook on jul 15,2011 after I came home from my friends birthday party so I think I might be catching on to something here
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*before april this year that is
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we might not be dating exactly but we're friends at least
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Witch is great. Once you brine more comfortable around her and if you realize you like her you should ask her out on a real date. Also did she ever answer the question about if you two were still going together?
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didn't ask her about prom yet
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You should ask her on a date if you feel as if you want to be her boyfriend and on the date ask her about prom. Keep me updated.
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we're in the close/best friend stage yet
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*we're not in the close/best friend stage yet
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we are friends though that's for sure
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I do think about putting my arms around her waist affectionately, cuddling with her and that stuff
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*that sort of stuff
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You should! Do that to her and in a couple of weeks ask her out or days or even a day. Guys put their arms around girls that are just friends, people do it at my school all the time.
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she has uploaded a lot of pictures of herself recently on facebook
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Good then she feels more self confidence. Now is a great time to ask her out. Forget about the chance of her saying no, if she asked you to prom she's probably going to say yes.
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Are you going to ask her out?
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thinking about it
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I want to focus on academics first and then her
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me and my friend akio was talking about me and her having kids together and stuff jokingly of course but it could happen well maybe
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Yes it could if you ask her out. You can date and still focus on academics. You just need to work her in around studying.
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Aww you quit commenting. ;) jk
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not going to prom :)
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she's going to go to uvic (in victoria) and I'm going to college here in vancouver (langara), so it'll be like a long-distance relationship where we'll probably barely even talk or see each other....from a long-term perspective I don't think things are going to work out between me and her and I've decided that I don't need her, I'll find someone else cause there are a lot of fishes in the sea and if it's not meant to be it's not meant to be....case in point
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furthermore, when it's about school and her. school is more important and she would just get in the way of my potential successes and that's another reason for my decision
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Either that or she feels comfortable around you and she isn't afraid to act like herself instead of act cool trust me I am a girl

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It's a big possibility! When I'm around a guy I like I act a little different than myself... I try to impress them... So I guess she's trying to impress you!

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Prolly

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Not necessarily.

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explain
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Just because she acts weird around you, doesn't mean she likes you. It could mean anything..maybe she's just a weird person.
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we're friends and we know each other since gr 8 and we're gr.12 right now
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she asked me to go to prom with her; she gave me 5 seconds to agree to go the grad dinner/prom thingy with her and I said yes/ok and she said I didn't agree really. Is going through her time of the month phase?
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one moment she implies that she wants to go to prom with me next moment she goes on her time of the month phase and "run my ass over". why would she ask me if I want to go with her to prom if she doesn't want to go with me? That's just absolutely ridiculous. Is she manipulating or trying to exploit (is she trying to toy with my emotions?)
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she only treats me this way and no she doesn't act like this usually
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and are you a guy nor a girl?
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She's probably messing with your feelings...nd why are you asking??
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just wondering why she's been acting weird when talking to me or when she around me
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and I"m wonderin if you are a girl because it's easier to ask a girl this question than to a guy
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Well then yeah I'm a girl..
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Yes it does. It means she is nervous. I would ask her out. ;)

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but she said herself that she wants me to leave her alone though
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and that is unlike her to say something like that
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Well then maybe she is trying to trick you or she really does want you to go away. Gals are tricky. :)
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She's guilty about something

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about what though? She asked to prom and initally I didn't want to go to the event in June but then I changed my mind and said yes/ok and she said this:no
u didnt
agree
i said 1
so offer is
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k thanks bye with :)
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*she asked me to go to prom with her; she gave me 5 seconds to agree to go the grad dinner/prom thingy with her and I said yes/ok and she said I didn't agree really. Is going through her time of the month phase?
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*is she going
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one moment she implies that she wants to go to prom with me next moment she goes on her time of the month phase and "run my ass over". why would she ask me if I want to go with her to prom if she doesn't want to go with me? That's just absolutely ridiculous. Is she manipulating or trying to exploit (is she trying to toy with my emotions?)
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is she afraid to admit that she likes me? is that why she acting funny and eccentrically?
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by the way she and I have been friends since gr 8's and we're both gr 12's currently
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Ok not to be mean by she sounds rude. I think she's just pissed didn't say yes the first time.
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Ok so Iv been thinking about this.....its either 1. She's pissed u didn't say yes the first time or 2. Shes toying with u. Or 3.shes scared to mess up the friendship by saying she's likes 'like she's scared if u break up she'll lose ya as a friend.
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I think it's three and very well said. :)
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Ya me to....it's be a bummer if it was 2.....
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time will only tell I guess
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it's been a week I haven't been able to reach her online or in person
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Ok now she's just being mean
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she accepted my friend request on facebook but that's it
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She accepted my friend request on Facebook. Does this mean anything? Is she just doing this to get it over with or is she doing this because she felt bad of how she treated me last week when we chatted on facebook?
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so I talked to her on fb and apparently she said this "sorry im really pissed off right now grumpy mood"
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she's talkin to me but not sayin much
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I think u should move on....
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yup
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I told her about how my friend Edrick still gets spoonfed at the age of 17 by his mom and she said " wtf,how do you even know that?" and then I said he posted it on his wall I bet he feels like a kid again no pun intended I don't know whether to laugh at this or feel sorry for him lol
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*spoonfed with medicine that is
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* spoonfed medicine
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she's starting to warm up to me so that's good
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*she's started warming up
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