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I think my boyfriend is going to break up with me! If he does, What do i say to him?

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say later and don't look back if you don't get upset in front of him he will wonder keep him in suspense I'm a guy and don't give him the satisfaction of getting upset in front of him. if you can help it

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lol, and what if the guy likes the girl still but he knows that they cant keep goin out for some reason? then u not only just broke 2 hearts, but u also have a seriously awkward relationship where neither of them talk to eachother ever again but the whenever they see eachother they become depressed.
being a b^0tch is not under any circumstances the best way to go
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i know that feeling
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Say,"you'll never find nobody better than me".

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It is either that or you Say you will never find anybody that is like me because look at it I am awesome and point to your body
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True:)
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Improper English.
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Double negative, it'll mean the opposite.
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say "ok. but just remember: there is no one out there that is like me. at all"
make sure he knows u still care about him if you do.

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Don't do that
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Say ok it's alright I guess it wasn't meant to be and you'll regret it

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idk but at least you will be less surprised if he does. .

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Do something to make u seem irresistible to him and he won't want to break up with u... :D learned from experience

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Tell him he is crazy if he thinks he can find someone better than you then slap him and pretend to call some guy and tell him you want to go out with him so you can make him jealous then walk away with a hip swivle so he knows that you are all that!

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lol. good one
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That's FUNNY:)
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That still doesnt ease her pain. If anything that would make her look like a fool more so than the person who would even think of suggesting her do something like that
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Dude calm down. It was a joke
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Tell him" I understand your reasons but I just want you to know you will never find another girl out there like me"

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What if he says I could find someone better?
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Than she should have never went out with him anyway
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Break out into improv dance and sing Adele songs.

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I would be mad if someone did that to me! That is great advice
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cause rumer had it im hes the one im leavin u for
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Why Adele...never mind!
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thats just genius !!! :D i eould totally do that
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I never liked you

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Bye!!

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I was going to break up with you anyways

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Wow! Ouch:(
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Well...if I got dumped I'd be mad
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thats harsh
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ouch thats really harsh
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Sorry
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Thanks for breaking my heart

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What is the maximum altitude a spitfire plane can fly at?

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What's a spahire plane?
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Don't be that sad, don't show any emotion. Act normal...

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Just be like "alright I understand." Don't say that he'll never find anyone better than you cause he will. He'll find his sole mate. Not you. You'll find yours one day too though so just keep your head high. Don't cry! Just say "ok" and walk away

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use your head puma-gal !! say what's in your heart he may have a good reason that you don't know about

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Say I'm better off without you

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Say "Fine break up with me but you will be sorry for it. You will never find a girl just like me".

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So true lil' girl!
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that is what i said to my ex (:
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i think thats a funny response for someone who's username is kindness100percent.... lol
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if he dumps you, then he is missing out on a great young woman. if he does, then he is also no good for you and you should forget him. Dont be like me. i took back my ex boyfriend 8 times now. He and i are now engaged.

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hi teenmama - how can you get your bf back for 8 times then engage? Need to know the secret. I do not really want to break up with my bf now.
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Smile and say "Good luck finding someone better" :)

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Hey, Are you Henerd10 and changed ur username???
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ya
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Break up with Him first

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As a 69 year old divorcee and widower I recommend you discuss "why" the relationship is not working. Separate or join with dignity, but understand why the relationship ended.

Knowledge is power.

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Say, "Oh, thank goodness". I was dreading having to break up with you. I've been unhappy for some time."

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Haha good one!
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*high five* thats awesome
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Wow! Awesome I'm so gonna use that one day. If I was the boy I'd be steaming mad :DD
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Hello,Dr.Magbu i want to thank you for the returning spell you did for me my wife is back to me after using you returning love spell and she said there is no need for the divorce again thank you so much,i we never forget this great happiness you brought to my life. if you are in need of this powerful spell caster you can reach him through this Email address: reunitingexspell@gmail.com i must tell this to the world you took a sad man like me and make me happy.
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What so you mean what do i say? If it hurts let him know. If you're ok with it because you saw it coming or you were gonna end it anyways, respond in a way that doesn't make it seem like its hurting you but don't act too cocky, that will hurt him. But i wouldn't be like you'll never find any body better than me or whatever because he could come back to you. Just respond in a way you'd want the person you're breaking up with to respond.:)

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well say i never wonted anything to do w/u anyway

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Ask if something is going wrong with your guys relationship or ask if he is gonna break up with you

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I asked my ex that and he said he loves me more than the air he breathes that he would die without me and that my love is his drug (addictive) and yet an hour after he said this too me HE DUMPED ME!
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wow, sorry! ive ask a guy if he was gonna break up with me and he said yeah we need to it would be best,but i still love you and want to be friends and then kissed me so
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Throw yourself on the floor and grabb him around the ankle and scream pleeeeaaaasse dont leave me i loooooovve uuuuuu. Lmao

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Lol xD
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lol :D
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Just tell him. Ok. If you want to know ask him why. Remember to keep breathing, Then walk away with dignity. It will hurt for a while. But each relationship is a learning experience. You will find someone better when you are ready.

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im a guy and coming from the heart cuz my ex broke up with me. tell him that you will always love him no matter what and that if we can just be friend brother sister type friends.

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You can't really say anything and just except it but don't try to brake up with him first unless you know for sure that he wants to brake up , other then that you just act like it doesn't bother you and say alright , you can't try and argue about it , if that's what he wants

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No.

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Well just dont be one of those people who hates their x's for no reason

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Peypey can I just say that you are so pretty.
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Tell him: " I was the best thing you've got and the best thing your ever gonna get! Remember that!" and turn and walk away :) then for extra support go on YouTube and look up the song "Keep your head up" by Andy Grammer

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Ok never never put yourself at a point of weakness unless you don't want him bk say I am glad you said something becuz I was going to if you did not don't cry infront of him you can cry plenty as soon as he leaves and is a safe distant away as to not here you it will make him wonder and if he does come bk make sure you have him tested for stds

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he must be making you feel bad if hes making you think he wants to break up with you .I would tell him to get lost

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Say "well I guess that's one loud of my back now I got to find a way to dump jacob...."

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Tell him: " Okay. It's alright. I've been trying to break up with you ever since last week! Thanks!" And walk away actin happily ( skipping and etc.)
That makes it seem like you don't care at all. :)

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if he says "what would you do if i broke up with you" say "Get back with my ex" and if he breaks up with you say "Will you go out with me" if he says "get back with your ex" say "You are my ex"

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Make sure u walk away w/ dignity Do NOT break down and start crying and begging (Exaggeration)

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dont worry have patience.....maybe someday he'll recognize his mistake and may return back to you forever, in a way you would really like him to be.
or may be you may find your true soul-mate.
jus say OK.....and dont cry in front of him....dat will only show how weak you are.....and may also worsen the situation

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if he brakes up with you tell him how you feel be strong if you really love him tell him how you feel if he has been a jrek to you say good bye and walk away trust me alot of us girls have gone through brake ups try to be your self and keep your head held up high :)

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if he brake up with u. say ok nd leave and dnt cry be like wat ever nd show off nd be like wat ever to the brake up. if u still like him try u hardest not to brake up ask his friend wat should u do to fix it

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Tell him, it's his loss!

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just say ok an dont show that it hurts u

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say "what ever" then start to say a lot of bad words at him

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say "all the best for your future"
and you don't be sad, cause you will find another special someone

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kill him with kindness and have him beggin gon his knees for mmore;D lol just say "okay just know that your the best hes ever had and the rest are lame lol idk"

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The best thing to do is not to say anything mean, he wants you to care. If you pretend like you don't care, he will go insanely jealous. So don't say anything about it until he does break up with you (if he even does) then when he breaks up with you say "Alright. Talk to you later." That lets him know that your going to find other guys, but he will never find a girl like you. When you see him in the halls don't say anything to him, just pretend hes not there.

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don't say something you'll regret just tell him how you feel and that you respect his decision

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Don't dwell in the past, if you do, you will miss all the good things in life. If he is going to dump you, he is not worth it, forget him and find someone new. Hope this helps... Rhi :)

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i think you should say SAY"REALLY YOU MUST OF BUMPD YA DAMN HEAD IF YOU THINK BREAKING UP WITH ME IS A GOOD IDEA BUT HEY U WILL NEVER FIND A GIRL LYK ME IM THE ONLY GIRL THAT WILL EVER LOVE YOU LYK I DID

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say its ok i didnt need you anyway
but if you really love you should try to get him back play hard to get be with him whenever you can but dont make it to obvious that you still like him keep it on the down low just be friends and hug him but dont get to passionate with it *just stay friends* for as long as you can

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Hmm.. I'm seein' a lot of rather immature answers here. Just self-defenses that are shallow and egotistical. Sorry to say that.. But saying that you are the best thing in the whole world is not going to convince him that you are if he has already decided that you are not. --I'm not talking about you specifically, puma_gal, I'm just speaking generally.

Anyway, I'd follow these peoples' advice: saltwater13, Londonbrown, geraldsr, AAQQ, mccabetaylr, gatorblu and xxlovinlifexx. Really.

But I reeeallllly hope it works out for you!

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If he does choose to break up with you! don't show any emotion. It'll drive him insane and he'll be wondering why you played it so cool ! But don't look mad or upset bcc if you show your mad then hell think your crazy if you show your sad hell feel sorry but he'll leave regardless.. Best bet is to play it cool.

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try to talk to him tell im how u feel

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