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What should I do? I dont know if I should give him a third chance. (read below)

My boyfriend and I have been having an off and on relationship. He broke up with me the first time, but then 1 week later he asked if we could get back together saying that he misses me. We get back together and then he breaks up with me a second time. He's now once again asking me to take him back. I still have feelings for him, but this on and off thing is a little frustrating. What should I do? Do I give him a third chance?

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No. He is playing you, hon. He has some sick need for power and control, and he's exercising it on you. This is one guy that you honestly just don't need. Tell him, "not just no, but hell, NO!"

When it comes to guys, never forgive anything more than once. If he does it twice, he's showing you he doesn't respect you. You have better things to do with your youth than to waste your time with him.

Be strong, Nihilistic. The better you treat yourself, and the more independent you become during these years of your life, the more you will like the woman you are going to become. I promise.

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Very nice answer, you gave this so much thought, hope she listens!!!
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Thanks, Kookie! How is life treating you lately?
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Thank you so much
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I can't complain, it's a gift to wake up everyday. Hope your well :D
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@Nihilistic--you are welcome.

I am doing well, Kookie. Thanks for asking. I found an Internal Medicine doctor who is going to be my primary care doc, and who will also manage my pain meds for me. This makes me very happy, as it reduces by one the number of doctors I have to keep on the payroll. This is a great help to me, financially, and in terms of continuity of care. :-)
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No. He keeps asking you out because it seems like you're dependent on him. It seems that way to him

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iamassasin is right ^^

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No. You don't deserve that. On again off again relationships never ever work. Once you break up multiple times it will never be the same again. Find someone who won't take advantage of you.

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Yes

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Curse him off jk kill him no sorry just.... Never mind

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This isn't baseball, he doesn't get three strikes, ditch him.

Everybody deserves a second chance, well he wasted his. Now he's just trying to have it both ways. He's got a girlfriend but he's free to play. No ma'am, get rid of him.

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Hi, Tony. Don't you speak to me anymore? What's up?
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No! I'm mad at you for always giving better answers than me! Haha :-)

Nah, I was just on a weird schedule last week, sorry!
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No problem at all. I was just worried that I had offended you. You are one of my favorite people here on Ask, and I just wanted to make sure everything is copacetic...Glad you're back! About the answers, NO WAY! :-)
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I didn't read the story after I saw " Third chance". The answer is no.

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Yelp!
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Hi Bubbles! Kookie's here and feeling frisky, I'll guess. :)
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Haha! Hi guys! : )
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Love love LOVE this answer!
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Tell him to take a hike!

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Bye bye
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sayanara!
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dustee

babygirl move on before you really get hurt.

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