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What do you do when your boyfriend breaks up with you for no reason then you ask him why and he says he dont know? Am i wrong?

Me and my boyfriend were together for three months and then i called and his friends answered his phone and they said that he told them he didnt want to be with me anymore so a few days later i called back and he answered and he still said he didnt want to be with me i just dont get why i think i love him

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Nooo... You are not wrong. There is nothing you can do if your boyfriend breaks up with you for no reason. No matter what he says or does not say he has his reasons why. In my opinion maturity has everything to do with it & his peers could possibly have an influence as well. (Going off of how you describe the break up) The best thing you can do is focus on you. ln time he may come around but for now dont let his uncertainties bring you down. Just keep this in mind.... at least you were able to see him for who he truly was early on in the relationship rather then later on. So take this situation into consideration if you decide to take him back.

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i think you helped me the most it means alot i had a hard time getting over him cuz we dated two times before this time the first time we dated for a year and a half the second time we dated for nine months and this time we dated for three i think i should just give upon him maybe he isnt mr right
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uh huh i think you might be right he probably isn't mr right for you honey and I'm sorry for having to say that , try to find a guy that you like and has a lot of things in common with you. And hopefully the new relationship will get ur mind off of him.
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I'm glad that I helped you. Girl I know. When you have a past with someone and feeling are involved you always want to give them the benefit of doubt. You have high expectations but in the end your feeling is always getting hurt. You wouldnt have gotten back together if you didnt expect differently. But your hurting your self in the process an you might let Mr. Right slip by. He could even be the right person 5 years from now when he realizes what you are worth. Well if its not to late by then...lol.
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The best thing would be for you to move on, away from your boyfriend. A mature guy that respects will tell the reason why he is breaking up with you and not use his friends to break up with you. Adopt a new hobby or activity that will keep your mind from him.

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well i guess we were starting to grow apart i was working alot and he was to so we never saw each other
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:( sorry this happen, but it happens alot, we all need to learn and grow in relationships .. It's part of becoming mature and having a mature relationship.. He is not mature enough of a man yet to take the time to figure out how to work through things and communicate Did you know usually three or four months is kind of a rule of thumb of either you can break it off and go your own way or you actually have more of a connection? (when you are older its two dates ;) ....Your right on track... Hold your head up, do nice things for others to feel better about yourself and in time you will see how you matured :)

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thanx for your concern but what do you mean when i am older i am nineteenbut its whatevr i gotta get back to work
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You are going to grow and mature alot in your 20's,...that's what dating is all about, you date and find out it if you connect and you then see if you are a good match..and then you see if you could be thier a life partner and they be yours :)
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no you're not wrong I had this problem except with a guy that I dated for 6 years and I still don't know why he broke with me today. Try to talk to his friends and ask them if they know why he broke up with you , my cousins did this for me except they asked his little brother and he said he doesn't even know but apparently he still likes me , so talk to his friends and even ask him in person of course and see if he thinks when wrong with the relationship or if he even thinks anything did. GOOD LUCK :)

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It's a dead end for you. Most people in the teen ages don't stay too long in relationships that's just the way it is. I know it hurts you will be ok

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