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dobelSoboel32: 1 year ago

How do you avoid being Hurt when looking at Beautiful girls, Should you just ignore them and not look at them?

Well. People have said that "you can't always get what you want" etc...And that "why you always want beautiful girls?" etc.

Well it's not my fault i like them and I want to have a GF like that. MOst guys do. But every time i go out side in downtown, stores, etc. There's always tons and it hurt my heart very much because i know i will never have one of them as GF. and i feel very sad.
But i'm not ideal guy, i'm not an ideal mate, i'm not attractive, i'm not great personality and i'm not a talker and it's impossible that i will ever have such a GF. So, should i just cover my face or look at the ground when i pass by them? I just want to forget them cause they're an impossible dream. Recently that's what i do, i look down or away from them to not look at them but it's sad because i still know they're there and i'm attracted to them. I should just force myself to like the girls that i don't like? Isn't this what people tell Gay people no to do?

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jojo2430: 1 year ago via iPhone

Become an ideal guy and mate with a great personality and dress well. You can't change your face but girls don't necessarily get too hung up on looks if you are a great guy and your opinion of yourself is low. It doesn't mean you are not good looking. You just have to be what you think would be attractive to others. Listen to other guys and how they talk to girls and flirt and see what girls are giving attention to others for and practice being a different more ideal person if you think that would help you in some way. You may be just perfect and don't know it. Start liking who you are and be who you want to be .