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I'm a guy and i'm wondering, Why do I push away the one i like-like a lot for?..i don't know how to explain any better so yea...

.I can't sleep at nights because of it..it hurts to do it but i can't help myself....i just push her away ...it hurts

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Some people just push those they love away, because they are afraid they might end up hurting them. Other times, it is the fear of letting someone get too close and getting hurt should a time when they will be left. The fear of a broken hurt or breaking a heart is what usually causes such problems.

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that's how i feel....
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Not of youranswers helped ^^ i got played
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Maybe your brain is more stubborn..it wont listen to your heart...but make your heart strong and listen to it..not to your mind when it comes to "love'...

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mar30
Good answer! <3
How are ya? :)
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fine...how are you?:)
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mar30
Good thanks! :) What's up? :)
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nothing interesting...you have to say....
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mar30
haha.
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mar30
I'll brb.
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WTH maria?
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i'll try...thanks
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no prob:)
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nice conversation you two had
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mar30
hey Spany, I'm back.

and hey Zack. :P lol
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uh hi..
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ZackCrosswell:...we just started and maria went:(
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mar30
heyhey. im back. sorry. i wasnt feeling to good
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oh...fever...then u should go back...take rest:)
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lol add me if u like._.
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Not of youranswers helped ^^ i got played
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Jgirl123

...You Really are not Ready to Commit to her...yet.I used to Frost people,too, until I realized one day that it was Me who had the problem, Not Them.I got Over my fear..and Bagged a Good man.Westie.

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thanks
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yo dude, I think its because your shy/afraid to talk to her and you dont want to mess up the soon to be relationship with her

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Not of youranswers helped ^^ i got played
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Maybe you have a fear of being rejected. But if you don't conquer that fear, you'll never get anywhere. Let it go and move forward. Or you might miss out on making great friends or meeting the girl of your dreams. Aloha!

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No she admitted she likes-like me too...
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Well, then you definitely have a fear of something and need to conquer it. Before some else comes along who won't push her away. So you got some thinking to do. Conquer whatever that fear is, or let her get away.
But then again," relationships come and go,but friendships last forever".
You need to decide one way or the other. Relationship or friendship?
Good Luck. Aloha!
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Thanks
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Not of youranswers helped ^^ i got played
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I guess I have to be more Akami. You definitely played me.
A'ole pilikia, kolohe.
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Fear for sure. It's hard to be your own person then have to worry so much about another person, that's why being mature helps in relationships. You want her when you need her but you want independence when you need it as well. At this point you should probably step back from the relationship and be independent. You are hurting her either way, with you and without you. Just be honest and tell her you adore her but don't yet know about your responsibility level to be the best boyfriend she deserves. You will risk her moving on but there will be others when you decide that a relationship has the benefits you are ready to accept along with the responsibilities.

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Because maybe your scared to be broken hearted and your not listening to your heart!!

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.......yeah i listened it lied.....
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