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What do you do? When your parents fight all the time then you catch her with some guy and calling and texting this guy

My mom works Mon-Thur at Hooters then Fri-Sun at Mouse's Ear ( which is a strip club) it has always been embarrassing to me that she works at these places with 3 children at home and a husband. Lately my mom and step-dad have been fighting a lot and she is always on the phone and texting this guy Tyler who works at Hooters with her. One night my step-dad had to work late and i caught my mom making out with Tyler. What do i do? My mom and step-dad have been married for 10 years. ugh...NEED HELP

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Sorry to hear that you are feeling the burden of your parents problems. It sounds like your mom is confused about who she wants to be with. Try and remember it is up to your parents problem to work out. I realize it's tough but maybe there's a quiet place you can go when your parents fight and argue Try and talk to them about counseling if not for them then for you and your siblings. Good luck

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it sounds to me like a problem that your mom and dad need to work out.
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Sit down and talk to her and tell her how you feel and bit by bit explain to her how you really feel about the choices she is making , She may understand and she may not because moms are unpredictable

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nice comment my names mandy wats urs
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haha mines amanda. its close to Mandy
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hi there my name is Faithe
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i think he likes you faithe
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haha funny ??
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slap your mom!!!!!!!!!! holy stuff whats wrong with her! just talk to her about it and tell your dad too

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hey there OneDirectiongirl, firstly..i am so sorry to hear about your family problem..being in a family where the parents aren't doing their part is very sad to hear..i think the best option is to try to discuss this matter with your other family members who are matured enough on family matters..try to ask for help from them to discuss with your mother. gud luck :-) sincerely..

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i love one direction wat bout u my names amanda
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u just said your name is mandy
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gerrad478 are you just on here to catch a girl lol wooow so silly
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awkward... :-D
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who?? me??
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oh really lol
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this is very awkward not.
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AquaGirl94 who is gerrad talking to because this keeps poppin up on my android
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okay if you dont start saying names. im going to be very confused
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can you please stop whatever it is you're doing..thanks :)
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amandarules458 you are so right lol
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who
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OnlyHiz12, I have no idea.. :-/
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who da heck re u talking to gerrard
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HOLY CHIZ MAN! who are you freakin talking to?
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Maybe he's dellusional
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haha maybe
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i did not say maybe to him.
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uh, u just did.. :-D
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no i said maybe to the other girl
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Owh..haha
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Not interested lol i Have a bf and happy to be with him even though we are having problems im taking and lol how does he know i dont live half way across the map for crying out loud>>guys these days lol
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haha he should
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girls, i think he's out :-)
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i want him to know i dont have a boyfriend but i have my eye on someone. <3 AND ITS NOT HIM!!!!!!
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Hope so
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lol
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WOW I feel bad for you! Well tell your mom how it's effecting you, and your life, tell her how you feel...

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Try minding your business she is grown right?

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omg DuhJoka if its reflecting her family she needs the help! why are you being so rude to her?! she is just asking for answers anyway!!!ppl like you need help BAD!!!!!!!!
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Well, this is above my pay grade, but I would say stay out of it because if they get divorced you'll be living with your mom and she'll make your life miserable. Sorry to hear you such real problems to deal with.

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I think that you guys should sit down and talk about this I mean your cought in the middle and you need to tell your mom how you feel...

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If it's embarrassing you shouldn't give the names of her employers. But listen to them above... ALL of them

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Let u daddy know.

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i think you should not tell your dad because then your parents will get into it then you will be in the middle of this crap.
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it seems to me that your mother is bored with your step dad, she is looking for excitement in her life. tell your mom you know what she is doing and it is upsetting you, i dont know how old you are, to give you a more adult answer

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thats a very good idea.
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sounds like a maury show or something. im really sorry this is happening i agree wiith the above that you should talk to her and if that fails then a grandma or aunt or something.

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u and ur cousins talk to ur mom... if she ended in a harsh manner,try from ur dad side for divorce if its ok for all u children . its better to live some place out , instead of all this nonscence and meet ur mom outside when u need her. so all can live peacefully

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I think thats a good idea so ur not in the middle of the problem like i am at home.
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Talk to your mom. Open up a dialog between the two of you. There's a whole lot more I could say on this, but it would be directed more towards your mom. One question, where is your father?

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yeah thats a good question weres your father when all of this is happing.
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It's a tough situation & a weight you shouldn't try to carry right now. The best advice I can give you is let them work it out, try & put it out of your head . concentrate on your life, your school work,& your future. Unfortunately It sounds that it's gone too far for you to have any say in the matter, so even though it sucks let them come to their decisions & you concentrate on you. Talk with GOD HE will get you through this.

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Your so welcome. Thank you for reaching out!
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hi im really sorry about that but i would confront your parents and then tell them that if they can work things out then do it but if they can't then so be it you never know though the guy couldnt came on to her and your mom just was in the heat of the moment but do not think its your fault cause it isnt. my parents fight sometimes and it makes me really sad but i get over it so you never know.

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