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How do you stop a stalker?

this dude will not leave me alone i swear

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With a 12 gauge riffle

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You mean 12 gauge shotgun.
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Shotgun or riffle as longest it scares the bastard
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Guns are usually used more to kill than scare.
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To stop a stalker, first look for the signs that imply you are being stalked. Pay attention to see if someone is following you when in public. Report any suspicious activity that you may think could be linked to a stalker. Get more tips at http://www.ehow.com/how_4576949_stop-a-stalker.html.

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File a restraining order

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call the police lol

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Hey, you there?
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good
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Tell the dude to please quit.

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You go to the police and you document EVERYTHING!!!!

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If you are actually being stalked alert the police

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try talking to that person and figgure things out bettween you otherwise tell her off and say your ass is grass

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you have to obtain proof - record - take pictures - videos on your phone and whatever you can gather to proof and it is not easy even if you can where you live to take out restraining orders a lot of places dont do it anymore -- i guess cause of them that cry wolf ? they wont and dont here - you have to gather proof .

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Let him overhear you "calling in" your HIV medication.

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If you see him following you, take pictures. If he calls, keep you phone bills. If you have friends that have witnessed him stalking, get statements. Then go to the police.

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Mr_FadedGlory

If he can't take a hint, you need to file a restraining order. If he violates it, you need to call the police EACH AND EVERY TIME!!! Be careful and take care of yourself.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OMOGaugKpzs&feature=fvsr

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Heh. Good one. Great song. And really creeepy...if you think about it. :)
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Yes, sir! And it's absolutely about that also, stalking.
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just get a bigger, tougher boyfriend. if your the chick in the pic, you should have no problem doing that. let the stalker get punked or beat-up. he will disappear.

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Be straight up with him, if he is any decent person he will stop. Just have to make it completely clear, and not give him misleading hints. Sometimes guys can not take the hint because they so badly want something they will reject all negativism and feed off optimism. Be clear, that should work, if not you let me know, lol.

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Now I'm commenting on your answers lol ;)
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I thought it was a pretty good answer:D
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It was lol, I have a stalker :( He's a creep
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He's been trying to get me to go out with him for a year
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Like i said gotta tell him whats up. If he still persists to keep trying, just ignore him as best you can, if its texting you can temporary blacklist his phone number with an app or if it get more serious you can take it to your provider and fully block his number, I know on facebook you can block people, I'm new on here so I dont really know my way around haha
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But a year is a long time to not get a hint lol usually after a couple times of someone not replying to me, I stop giving them the benefit of the doubt about why they aren't replying and start expecting what I didn't want to expect.
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Yeah, he's a creep and well....not the most attractive person...
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Double creep!
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Ikr?! Haha he's a weirdo and his little cousin and my sister are in the same class and unfortunately like best friends...needless to say I won't be going on any sleepovers to her house :/
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Oh girl, he must think you're cute :)

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haha....omg; haley your hair is awesome<3
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lol thank you so much LarunBugg(":
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Call the cops and put a restraining order on him...

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mar30

You should tell your teacher, guidance or parent!

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dress up as someone else so the stalker can't tell how you look.

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tell police and buy a gun

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trap them then call the cops and tell guardian

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Tell Stalker publicly, to stop. Save all stalking stuff: notes, gifts, phone messages, tweets, e-mails. Save all, even if it seems harmless. Make note of when, where, what time, etc. you received these things.

If under the age of 18 (or even if you're not), you need to tell a trusted adult(s). If you are even remotely embarrassed about the situation (happens a lot) , & why you hesitate getting help...Don't Be. Stalkers tend to be cowards and bullies, so they want you to hesitate. However, the longer you wait to get help, you are feeding Stalker's need for control.
Stalkers are deceiving, too. Sweet one minute. But when they don't get what they want (YOU!) Then they become unpredictable. The more time passes without doing something, The stalker begins to believe he has power to change you: you WILL be 'theirs'. You Will see just how wonderful/in love with you they are. How can you not want to love them forever?

If this has gone on long enough for you to feel stalked, then you need to get help. NOW.

Be Safe. Good Luck.

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CorizonVerdecru

I dont know how YOU stop one your a pretty girl but how I do is "Jennifer I dont have a green card" then I threw it off the lake....then got deported lol but she stopped stalking me

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You cracked me up. The good, old, 'Green Card' trick! :)
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Thats an old trick? Oh well thanx for the up!
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overtaker

Carry a baseball bat with ya.

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Be sure to report it to the police if this activity continues! I don't want anything to happen to you!

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