Love sometimes seems so hard to find because we live in a society that perpetuates the phenomenon of love in a negative way. This is seen in the actors, performers and athletes who are in constant on and off relationships making it seem like a hard thing. Some people are completely obsessed with the wrong pursuits of life.
Because love is not a thing you find, but something God brings to you. :) God has chosen one person out of the entire world for us to spend the rest of our lives with, and there is no way we can find Him. We just have to trust God to bring Him to us. :)
Because you keep looking for it. Stop looking and start living, be who you are, be your self. It will come to you in a sudden. suddenly it will come to your door step. The reason i said be your self and don't try to get any attention is because when ever a person loves you, you need to make sure that this person loves you for who you are.
It's pure chemistry and you just may be in the wrong area, expose yourself at events you like and someone there would be attracted to you, because you are comfortable, and you are yourself.;D. is attractive to men.
If you like someone and you think he's cute. but, you never tell them, it's a crush,
Don't look for the best of the best. Look for a guy that fits you and your personality. I tried to hard the first couple times lookin for 'him' then I relaxed my feelings and found the perfect guy for me (:
1. DONT SEARCH FOR LOVE, be available, but love is going to find you. When you less expected a guy will be interested in you, and you will be interested in him, and PUM, everything happens.
2. DONT FALL FOR THE BAD OR POPULAR GUY, as we women usually do. Bad guys are bad guys and they are always going to be like that. If they break some hearts, they are definitely going to break your heart too, and there's not going to be nothing "different" in you to change the fact he is an asshole in relationships, even maybe he is a really good guy inside with other stuff. Guys who doesn't want to commit or are only looking for physical relationships are like that, and they will always be like that. They are going to bring you a lot of suffer and humiliation. Believe me.
3. MAKE IT SIMPLE, you dont need a dramatic relationship to be a in good one. Trust the simple guy, the good one, that is the one that will make you happy. Relationships full of drama in the movies end good, but that is not what happens in real life. You will find that love in a relationship is based in small things, and its beautiful.