Why do I stop liking a guy when he tells me he likes me back?
Okay so theres this guy that ive liked for SO long, ever since 2nd grade (im a freshman in highschool) and recently he told me he has liked me, so i was really happy for the first couple of days but then i started freaking out and losing it. I just stopped liking him completely. Its like a little light inside of me flickered off. And so he asked me out and i said no and it crushed him, and he hates me now. This has happened with EVERY single guy that ive ever liked... except one. we dated and when he broke up with me i was depressed for days. but i really dont know what made him special. i guess he was the most "accepted" one. like he was very attractive, football player, all-star athlete, kind, caring, smart, funny, just all around amazing and liked by everyone. I think maybe im scared of people judging me, so every time some guy confesses their feelings for me, i panic and think about all the bad things that could happen. Does this happen to any of you???
Its bothering me SO much.