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Need relationship help!! Please help me!!

okay so my best friend is in love with her neighbor.. when I first met him I didn't think he was attractive so everything was ok. when I recently met him on Thursday, I instantly had a huge crush on him... He texted and told me he liked me... but he also said he liked my friend and I the same.. is it ok for me to like him and try to win him over? she's known him for like a year and has always liked him and stuff but I can't help what I feel.. is this ok or is it wrong?

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The reason you got this crush on him in the first place was because your bff has a crush on him. It like saying when your friend get a new car, you want a new car also. Why? because you want something you dont have at that moment and someone else does. Being friends with his is fine. And you need to tell him to make up his mind and tell you, does he like you or your bff. But if he choses you and you get with him, realhorrorshow said, you will lose her friendship. Hope this helps!

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yes its okay for you to like him and its okay for him to like you too but he also likes your best friend. what ive learned from the past is that my friends come before guys who i just met. i know that my friends will always be here for me, maybe even 10 years from now. but will that boy you like, like you back 10 years from now?

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Right or wrong... that's for no one else to say, but if you go for it, you will most definitely lose your friend. Period.

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There is a written rule between women. You DON'T mess with your friends boyfriend or husband. And you never mess with a married man!!! Never!!! Would your friend do this to you? More than likely this guy is a player and when he is done playing you... Your friend will be gone. Is it worth that?

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Just be friends. Then there won't be any problems.

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The forbidden fruit does it again. You will not have the same feelings for him when he drops your friend for your affection.

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darlin i dont think you should thats a bad mistake in my experince yah dont try to

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Thank you! I actually backed off because he told me he liked me.. He's a huge player! Thanks for the advice!! (:
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