You don't want to hear this, but you are way too young to make such a decision. Regardless of what anyone else says, your virginity is precious and should be guarded as such. If he's Mr. Right, and not just Mr. Right Now, he will still be around when you are more physically, mentally and emotionally mature.
You don't GIVE your virginity to anyone. It's not like they walk around with it in their pocket or something. All you can do with virginity is lose it, and when it's gone, it's gone. That is just a wicked young age to be thinking about this sort of stuff(for you) For him, his hormones are blazing off the charts, and he would want to get it on with ANYTHING that would allow him the access. You're gonna do what you wanna do regardless of what answers you get. NO.
Why in the world would you want to hinder your life in any way. Think of the possibilities that could happen. Wait till you're married before you commit yourself to someone. im 17 and i haven't even crossed that line yet. if you go ahead and do it, be careful and make sure you use protection.......
NO NO NO!!! just bc yall have been together a year doesnt mean you will be together another year!! you are still very young sweetie....worry about school and ur education...these days u cant get anywhere without it...and a lot of people have gotten pregnant even with protection...i had a child young...i was only 16...take it from someone whos been there hun...u dont wanna do that!!! life is too hard already...
1 year ago
Last edited at 8:13AM on 4/30/2012
You are 13! You do NOT need to be having sex. You shouldn't even really be dating yet. Enjoy being a kid. At 13 you're not in love it's just 'puppy love'. And just about everyone else is right you don't just give your virginity away. All it takes is one time to become pregnant and you are certainly not ready to be a mother. Sex shouldn't even be on your mind. What the hell is wrong with kids now a days?
Dont do it.Your way to young wait until your older at least.If he can wait patiently then he's probably the person for you.Its gotta be natural or special and wait till your older to many lives ruined by fooling around young I can't stress this enough wait trust me on this.
Dont, its only a one and a life thing chance once it gone it is gone, i alreadt lost it it is the worst mistake or your life and now im not with him any more. once you do a first time you will go back and do it again and u might end up pregnent .
Please don't do this.It will not be good for you to have a baby just yet.Your virginity is like a gift.It should not be opened until you feel the time is right.Besides, you don't want the rumors.If this guy is not the right guy then you have made a mistake.Don't make that mistake.I don't know you,but judging by the fact that you asked before you did it makes me have 100% respect for you.Best of luck to you and your bf!
if he loves you he wont push for sex wont ask and he will wait till your of right age so ,you dont need sex because life can take a wrong turn.take it from me your to young to be thinking of this wait till your ready an i promise it will all turn out great so just wait (Peace&love)
1 year ago
Last edited at 3:40PM on 5/5/2012
No, if he is truly in love with you or "hes the one", he wont pressure you into doing that. And trust me you WILL regret it if you do that. Just take things slow, and just because you have been with him for a year, doesn't mean you have to do that..
First thing what do 13 year olds know about love.Second thing why are you even thinking about doing such a thing!think of it if you lose your virginity at such a young age.You will regret it.I really hope you don't do it and i wish the best for you.
Look, I've been in love too and I've thought about losing my virginity, so many times, but I knew that I would have to face consequences if I ended up pregnant, and I didn't want to take that chance, plus. I wanted to have sex with Mr. Right. A guy that is really the right one for me. I decided to wait until I got older. Which is at the age of 23 or 21. I don't want to lose it to someone who's not Mr. Right. If we're together for a long time, then it will happen.
A lot of people have been in love, but 13's such a young age. Anything can happen. You can get pregnant. Even if you use protection. Condoms can break. Just a little bit of cum from a guy can get you pregnant if it gets inside of you. A baby will cause your life to cripple, because you have school. You still have a long way to go.
Its one year but you are really young. I think you should wait until you wont need to ask anyone if its right. And that's at least a year. I know many awesome people who had their first sex at the age of 24 or later so i think you can wait a bit more.
your to young and some times there with you for long and then when you do it they leave you ... i would say stay with him and if he is going to wait for u to be ready and a bit older that means he really loves you
Absolutely not! My little cousins 13 and she already had this talk with me. I told her that you've got your whole life to experience that . Plus it brings drama, people talking about it, a bunch of things and if he tries to say "We'll keeep it a secret,. He wont tell anyone,." Well its all an act too get in your pants, trust me been there done that! Just tell him your not ready yet! if he doesn't respect that, I promise that there are millions of others that will! [:
it is your life but in my opinion, and im a guy whos 18 and my fieonce is 16, no you shouldn't, at least wait till your sure he just isnt like most guys with the whole "i just want to get laid" thing, best of luck to you.
no! that's the worst thing you can do. think about how it would be if you come out pregnant. your dream career goes down the drain. you have to leave school and take care of the baby and work to take care of it when its out of you. trust me from my experience. im going to be 17 and im going to have my 2nd child
dont you have mom that taught you right from wrong i know got darn well that you no not to and when you get pregnant you are going to wish that you didnt do that cause if you do he probably wont even support im telling he just want you cause he know you are going to do
kid your 13 listen to the people who are saying NO your way to young and yea you love him and trust him but really you think hes gonna stick around if you get prize in your stomach? you and him are not ready for this. and think about it if you tell him to wait till your like OLDER, MUCH OLDER, and he actually does it then you'll really know he loves you.
HELL NO!! He's using you! there truly is only two reasons why a 16 dude dates a 13 yr old girl: 1) He's a retard ...literally not right in the head! Dump him now or sleep with him and ruin his fragile sexual innocence and obtain a very faithful stalker!! or 2) HE'S USING YOU!!! He just wants to get some and you're young enough to not know many of the in's and out's of the sexual world! Don't get sucked into his mental (and probably physical ) STD's!
sweet pea, NOOOOOOOOOOO! i had a friend that did that because they wer "in love" but he was just using her, no offence kido, but i dont think you should. u r given this gift only once in your still young, and ever so beautiful life! dont waste it, it its meant to be given to someone very special, (aka "the one") and you should do that! he may be it, but you dont know that yet. it is meant for your husband, and your husband only. perhaps you should think this over, talk to a school counselor, your parents, anyone you trust! if he really loves you, he will be that one special person, and WAIT. it nearly killed me to see my friend so broken hearted like that, and im sure it would do the same to those around you who love and care for you. please, just WAIT!
NO dont do it... u can and up having sex then having a baby then putting the baby in a foster home then devorcing then u will get kicked out of the house then u will be a hobbo eating rats with no one to have near u as faimly u will be lonely poor and everyone can hate or hurt u so dont its a big no!!!!!!!!!!!!!
1 year ago
Last edited at 5:53PM on 5/13/2012
your really young and even though you feel you love him, you probably dont. that could be one move that your gonna regret, and you can't go back in time.. if your still with him and your older that 18, think about it but you too young and thers a chance you could become pregnant, that would screw up your whole life and you probably want good money and an education :)
Hun I believe you already know the answer to this... If you are asking us for our advice I recommend listening to some of it. I was 19 when mine was taken from me. After that happened I figured I wasn't anymore so what did it matter? I regret that now. it has been 10 years since then. Think about your future. When you are 23... What if you and your current boyfriend break up and then you meet the most wonderful man ever and plan on marrying him and by chance he is still a virgin? Trust me the anxiety of having to tell him how young you were when you first had sex and possibly how many guys after that you have as well will be too much to bear.
Talk to mom do not get angry shes lived and experienced far more listen and slow down I am 15 yr old boy and I have noted that we guys are mindless we go after every thing not me but us in general. We r idoits don't reward us with sex. We are the cause of idiots. Btw hope u keep pure.