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Well im single and 20 and i've been single for almost a year in a hafe is that a good thing or bad thing

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Being single can be a good thing. It gives you time to work on yourself, figure out your priorities, and decide what you want in a mate. Way too many people are in relationships simply because they are afraid of being alone. I applaud you for not following the herd.

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i already have
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We're never done evolving as humans, if we keep an open mind. You will know if and when you are ready for a relationship. And you will be more stable, open and confident because of your time alone.
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Hey there! Dropped you a thumb. Happy Monday!
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Thumbs ;))
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Thanks, jenmay and sloza! Happy Almost Tuesday to you!
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What's a hafe ?

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Half.
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my bad tired had a long day
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Technically it should be a year and a half not in a half. A year IN a half would indicate that something requiring the duration of a year to complete was in fact completed in half of a year. A year AND a half is a mixed number putting together the whole (year) and the part (the fractional part of the year).
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i bet you already knew it is a good thing and this is how you spell it H.A.L.F not hafe
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50% is equal to 1/2 or a half or (hafe) god help us!
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So ? what's the question. We would like to help You.
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Beam me up Scotty.
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that depends

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haaahhaah, hafe
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thats up to you. i say its good

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It's impossible for anyone here to know the particulars of your situation or to know what you think is good or bad.

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Amen on that! This is ask.com, not reassurance.com. Getting tired of these polls!
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It only matters what you think.

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its not a bad thing some goals are hard to reach when u get tied down plan your career first and let the right person find you. You r still young and will have many opportunities along the way to find a partner

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thank you you are rite
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really decent, good one 25Mike
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Idk. But that's what that show tough love is for!(:

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i know and it hurts
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If it's what you want...if you obviously wanted to be in a relationship you could be. Wait for the right person!

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you are rite thank you
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No problem I've been single for 4 years so i know what its like
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aww well i hope you find someone to that will treat you like a queen and like how you want to be treated
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Thanks I know I will :)
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:) sweet
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i try to be some times i hid all the sweet and stuff and i keep to myself
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Life is not easy....but you know what, God didn't give us anything we can't handle! It's okay to be that way sometimes, but you have to over come your fears. You might miss out on something great if you don't chances or risks! :)
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wow ur rite but i missed a lot af chances at one one time i gave up and i sat around and did nothing now im trying and i wont give up cuz im not going to go back that way i will find someone and like all the time i meit get lol at oh well it is part of life
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good

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If you are happy that's all that matters.

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aww thanks
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yes this is a good thing and gives you time to find yourself - know yourself - be yourself before you find someone else

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10 my friend
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it is hard to be myself
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how can it possibly be hard to be yourself -- for this comes natural ?
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i changed so much from a goth to a emo to a wanna be ganster to the person i am now a country boy back then when i was a little boy i was sweet loveable and so much more i still have that good heart i just can be myself
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you need to quit trying to be something that your not country boy porkchop
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that is a very bad thing for you i'm sorry for u, but don't worry champ don't get upset

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noo! im 78 years old and have not dated since i was 16 (thats one time in my life) no one needs there loved one!! forever alone!! wooo lol jk jk im not even 78 lol xD

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I think it's a good thing but it depends on what u think

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It's not bad...Heck if you were in a relationship you would have rules....so you decide

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its not bad...dont worry. :) be happy

SMILE!

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It depends on whether you like being in a relationship

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I think it's a good thing to be comfortable with yourself. I also think it's good to remain open to a new relationship should the oppurtunity arise and it feels right to you. A common situation is one where a person is so scared to be alone, so desperate to be with someone that they hook up with a person that is not good for them. Then they stay with that person even if they aren't happy just so that they won't be alone. I'd rather be by myself than to be with someone that I don't like and who doesn't like me.

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If Your Single And Happy, Why Not Stay Happy? But If You Would Be Happier In A Relationship, Go Ahead And Find You The One! Do Whatever Makes You Happy!

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That's great! Take your time and be choosy! Trust me, your not missing anything but a heartache! Good luck!

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It depends ha u feel about going out again

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How does it feel to you? If you feel OK with it, then it is OK. If you think it is bad then it is bad.

My own opinion is, being single is not a bad thing. I am enjoying my private time. You are only 20. There is no hurry in finding someone new. Take your time to enjoy yourself and if you find someone interesting good, if not, have fun looking.

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yeah, I think it is. are you depressed? Do you work? Do you exercise?, Do you have hobbies? I ask you those, because there are single guys present while you are doing those things. So if you don't do those things you may not find an interesting mate.,

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You're better off single than mixed up with the wrong person. Endure the loneliness for a while and wait for the right one to come along. I was single for about four years before I met my wife. When she came along I was unattached and available.

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It means ur not a whore/man whore (idk wut gender u r) so thts good :)

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Its a good thing.you are free to do whatever and when ever

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Depends on if you want to get married or not. 20 is still young. Just pray about it! :)

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i thank its good single is always fun as long as u make it fun

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if you are happy-its good, if you are sad-its bad...as simple as that

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single doesn't mean looking for somebody

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no its a ok thing

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If you want it to be a good thing than it is. Depends on what you think / want it to be.....But if i were you, i would take it as a good thing:)

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neither

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yes, there are lots of important things than being in a relationship at 20. eg. Job, education friends etc... Save your love for someone special

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well im at job corps im getting payed and i am getting my HSD and ok i will thank you
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well are you ugly

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looks shouldn'n matter he should fine a girl that loves him for who he is
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Depends on what kind of person you are. if you like to be alone or not... I think if you are sure in who you are, then the right person will see you :) good luck

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yes, you are 20, dont worry , everyday easy go happy, soon you find someone you love

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you shouldnt really care if ur enjoying life then its good. if you want to get a gf it should just happen dont plan it

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No it's not bad you don't need a man to make you happy.Do whats best for you and Mr. Right will come along when you least expect it..

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ok and by the way i like girls not dudes im a dude
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well first of all its deff not a bad thing its just the wy u feel u date when ur ready to date

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I have a beautiful 24 year old daughter (and I mean model perfect!) and she is not dating anyone. It seems, every time she meets a guy, there is something that is not compatible between them. She's really cool about it though, she enjoys a well rounded life with work, school and friends. She'd like to have a boyfriend but won't settle if the guy isn't who makes her happy. There is a difference between being alone and being lonely! It will happen when you least expect it to!

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thank you and im at job corps turning my life around cuz i dropped out of school and im not a modle type guy im more of a country boy that loves to hunt fish and have fun life isd hard and i am single but my heart is like teeing me that i need to stop and finsh job corps cuz when i leave here im going to college to become a bisnuess man sorry my spelling is not good. so one day i can suport my family and make sure that they have a good life im a good guy people like girls neep to get to know me and not judge me when they first see me
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It sounds to me like you are working hard to improve yourself and that you're also a good and kind person. The lady who lands such a wonderful country lad will be lucky indeed! Best of luck to you son!
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thank you and GOD bless
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just accept the fact please ti e just might be a lesbian.
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@Blacknails That would be fine with me too!
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Baby, you can't worry about being a finalist everytime you meet someone, it will not work if the person doesn't have all the components for you. So, its cool the real thing takes time but when it comes you will know:)

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it's up to you try to fine that girl who like you for you you will fine her out there heck im almost 18 and i don't even go for the looks just follow your heart do wat makes you happy i wish you good luck :)

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thank you and you think like i do
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thank you funny thing is im almost 18 lol but i act a lil older then i am :)
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yea you do and that is a good thing
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thank you and i wish you good luck
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I'm black lol

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If that's what you want if you wanted to be in a relationship with someone you would have been just wait for that one special person to come around

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thank you and i just meit wait
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wellllllllllll that just means that you havnt found the right person yet which is fine haha youre still young. i was single at 20 for a while but now i have a boyfriend

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its not a bad thing you just need to find the right guy

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ok and dont you mean girl
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try going to speed dates or clubs and stuff to get to know men! but i am sure you will find the right man for sure ! :)

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im not a girl im a dude
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you can look from a positive point of view of your current states. you have not seen the world yet and be patient and be careful to step forward

GOOD LUCK

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It's okay. I didn't have a solid relationship till 25. Wait on God to bring the right one to you.

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thank you and i will
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