Talk to your parents and tell them you have a very good boyfriend. Tell them all his good characteristics and the many things he has done for you. Ask for their support by accepting him and you will always be grateful to them.
No offense, but i think its disgusting for an adult to be in a relationship with a young teen. Its not like the 14 year old is going to stay home or work??! its just not right.....sorry, but i just had to say the truth:)
Your kidding right? Is he slow? What could the two of you possibly have in common? You both realize this is illegal right? You could start off the conversation like " mom, dad, I'd like you to meet the new pedophile in my life"
How did you even meet this dude?!?! He must be very socially awkward or stupid to have a girlfriend that isn't even legal... Most parents won't accept a dude who is 6 years older than their 14 year old daughter. Good luck on trying to convince them...
Damn that's just wrong!! Well that's just my opinion and it does really matter... But if u like him just do whatever you think is better for you but later on just don't go up to your parents telling them what your boyfriend did to you...
That's not going to happen parents will always find that unacceptable. And so should you because he is too old for you and will take advantage of you then dump you. He is an adult he should know that if he touches you it is statutory rape and he can be held accountable . If you like him then tell him to wait until you are old enough to date legally. He will if he cares or he will break up if he sees hes not going to get what he wants right now and you won't see him again. 20 year olds date girls 18 and over. I think he's playing you. And you think he's interested . But his interest is not in your best interest I'm afraid. Perhaps you don't want to hear this but if you tell your parents I predict a bad outcome. And if you don't break up with him ASAP I predict a worse outcome for you.
i was 13 and my boyfriend was 18 and what he did was formally ask my parents if he can date me it shows maturity and responsibility and he would take me out to eat and watch a movie we never broke curfew ar any rules i know its a little old fashion but hey it worked :)
I think you should be with someone around your own age. By the way, it's illegal for an adult to date a young teen. I could see it happening if you were maybe 17, but any younger than that, no, I believe it is wrong.
you go and tell them now - you could just say -- hey mom - dad i am dating and fooling around with Chester the 20 year old child molester - - you need to stop this Now - if you care for him cause the perv is going to wind up in prison and maybe you in juvee and if he doesnt end up in prison over you he will knock you up and run and go mess with another little girl and this is what you are and you need to act accordingly - no parent in their right would let their little girl date and or fool around with Chester the child molester .
It's all been said right here above me, take it to heart, He is 20, messin around with a 14year old child, its against the law and he could go away for a long long time, he will have to register as a pedophile for the rest of his life, take crap jobs if he can even get one, be an outcast for the rest of his life, and thats not even counting what can happen to you, he is using you to get one thing and one thing only, if you were my child, he might not make it another day.you deserve better than a pedobear, dump him live your life with pride and your head held high.
if you think he is right for you then at lest wait till your older. Me, I am 13 but i chose not to date till I am 16 so i don't need to worry about things like that i hope you make the right decision for your life. God bless! Jesus loves you.
That is completely unacceptable - and that is probably what they'll say. Do you realize how much trouble that is? My thought is that he's in it for one thing; sex. You're a minor, if you're sexually active with him, it's called statutory rape.
okay honey, that's may not seem wrong to you but it is. your parents arent going to accept it . i know that for a fact. but no matter what we say or your parents or anyone you wont quit seeing him so honestly be ready for a heart break. i had many. dont get too close too him. watch out. please i stand for everyone, find 1 your age. im not telling yu what to do cuz i know whats its like to not be able to do what you wanna do and i dont wanna be that type of person but as a 14 year old rape victim ex emo abuse hell lot of heart breaks be careful. you think that's bad you dont know half of it. im not crying i got help. i think if i had people that actually told me things as suggestions instead of trying to be my boss i would be in a better place. 567 241 5897 text me, im out of minutes so just text everyday. eventually ill get minutes loll.
I believe that they probably won't like it no matter what you do. You should probably bring him home so that they can see him first. They ll probably find him old but think he isnt as old as he is. That's what would do. You don't need to explain his age unless they ask you about it when hey see him. Then you can tell them how serious he is unlike guys your age and how much you like them. It also helps if you know stuff about him that parents like to hear. Great school achievements, nice family, good relationship with family, nice-guy hobbies like drawing or writing songs....
tell you parents how good he treats you.tell them how great he is and how he's always there for you.. if its true.try to explain to them that your really happy with him..they might not be comfortable with it at first but maybe they might learn to deal with it.if you really love him and he loves you then i hope your parents would understand..
uh well that's not very good before you know it he will break your heart then go for another 14 year old girl the only thing that matters is if u are comfortable with him and your parents are just ask your parents nicely!
Uh, what the heck is wrong with your head?? You need to tell your parents and/or break up with him. You don't need a boyfriend anways, you're too young! Oh, and, he's probably with you because he can't get anyone his age! Ha!!!! Sorry to break it to ya!
Umm your 14. Realize that. Hes 20, REALIZE that. Not only is that illegal but its gross. If you want a real relationship, stay with your age group. But honestly your young. Enjoy it. You have plenty of time to worry about boys or in this case MEN in the future.
well i was in your shoes when i was your age. break up with him. hes too old and your too young. if the police or so finds out, you would be put in Juvenal hall and he would be in jail. trust me. i was 14 and he was 20. he came to my house one time when my parents werent there and then he took advantage of me and i came out pregnant and now hes in jail because he was with a minor.
well it matter if ur parents are kind and mellow, first explain to then that he is a real gentleman(hopefully) than introduce him to them, after that tell him his age they should as long as you dont do anything stupid. however if ur parents are strict then i cant help you there u should start looking for a new bf
Your parents love u and want u to be happy, if they agree to this or not. I was a teen before and he is to old for u. don't let sex mean in love. u have lots of happy days to grow and learn from you're mistakes and this is one.
Ok you obviously have issues and my advice is don't trust him a 20 yr old dude will know he too old so he trying to child molest you so tell your parents the truth and they will give you their advice: CALL 911 STUPID!!!!!!!!!!
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are you kidding me? big age gap. not cool. if your parents are like mine, they would legally DISOWN YOU if they found ot you were dating a college-aged guy when your a fricking highschooler! im fourteen, and my BROTHER is 20! and i could NOT imagine dating one of his hot college friends (only in my dreams!!)
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I have a friend that was 13 going out with a 27 year-old. She was raped. Her parents didn't approve him even though he was well mannered around the. They told her to dump her or they'd call the cops cause it wasn't right. He's in jail now. Think carefully. But if you love someone, age, weight, height is just a number. If you think he's not going to hurt you, just tell your parents. They will not approve at first, but don't go out alone with him, and maybe they'll start to adapt to him.
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It's depend on your parents and your idea of your parents. But I recommend not to tell your parents directly about that you can introduce him to your parents as your friend first in a party like that. The reason is you are still young and parents may concern about that. But if you are so sure you can introduce him directly to your parents. But also it is a fact that date someone of your own age is better. GOOD LUCK!
That aint no relationship, girl you just a kid, if i were your parents i would call the police, because its not right, he is a grown man, and you are a child.. its just nasty to me.. im sorry but i dont want to see another little girl walking around here pregnant, , cause all that man may want from you is one thing you should really watch out seriously
Okay... Sweet-heart Listen. You may find him as a sweet guy or maybe he is attractive or maybe your just desprite. But dating guys out of your age group is incredible imoral and there must be a reason that your dating him. I am sure3 that you have your reasons but I can honestly tell you that you parents will not except that. No matter what you do i think it would be best for you to break up with him. It would be best I am possative of that. I am not as imature as my friend who is sitting by me. But I would say that since your the same age as me I can honestly tell you that you will be better off with someone your own age. trust me things will work out!
he is so much older than you, that he could get charged criminally? do you really want that type of relationship. and i bet your lieing!!!!!!!!!!!!!! he must be really desperate because a grown adult shouldnt fool around with a yr old?