Self confidence is sexy no matter what gender u r....look at all your good attributes and people will fall in love with your imperfections...if not they r shallow anyways and don't deserve u in the first place!!
You could start to put your self out there! If you still go to school then you could do something different or talk to someone new. If you are at work then try to do something amazing to impress everyone. Both of these can be used for both factors, depends on how far you will go! Hope this helps!
You are narcissistic. It's a kind of psychological defense mechanism. You should not be that proud, and think more from other people's point of view,like: if you were that person, what do you want to get? praise for his new car, give someone advice, etc. Then you just lead them to do that, by your praise, or your asking for advice.
Take pride in yourself and know that other people are not different from you. They are also short of in many respects and have fear all the time. Visit Ask.com often then you will get to know what others think and what to do in some specific cases.
start with the mirror! also, try listing all the good things about yourself. whenever u feel self conscious, think of something u love abt urself and remember that who cares about them? you rock and thats all that matters! good luck!
Type in the ask search bar HOW TO BECOME MORE SELF CONFIDENT and see what you get. You should come up with a bunch of self help websites, some will want money, others will not. It's a step in the right direction to use the valuable tool you have at your finger tips! You can also check out self help book from our local library. If you do not want anyone knowing you're reading such books, make a book cover from wrapping paper to cover the book with. It takes practice to become more self confident. GOOD LUCK !
Alcohol can help if you're old enough. There is truth to old adage "liquid courage". But most of all just accept who you are and talk to people. There really is no way to get good at talking with people but to talk to them. There will be mean people, there will be nice people, and then there will be people interested in the same things you are.
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If this is towards strangers, just think " I'll never see that person ever again in my life." If this is towards close comrades, you can just think " they'll forget I ever said this in at least like 3 weeks." Everything is all about perspective
Being introverted usually stems from a lack of self confidence. Here's a solution you probably didn't think of for confidence - hypnosis. Think of this as a behavior issue that is controlled at the subconscious level. You're conscious mind is already aware of the behavior problem but can't convince your subconscious mind to change. Hypnosis bypasses the conscious mind to directly reach the subconscious mind and offer a suggestion for a new or different behavior. The effect is immediate upon leaving the hypnotic state and you should start noticing the difference right away. Look into it and give it a try.