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zamrock21: 1 year ago

How can I become more talkative and less self conscious?

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ValPak54: 1 year ago via iPhone

Self confidence is sexy no matter what gender u r....look at all your good attributes and people will fall in love with your imperfections...if not they r shallow anyways and don't deserve u in the first place!!

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VeronicaDurant: 1 year ago

You could start to put your self out there! If you still go to school then you could do something different or talk to someone new. If you are at work then try to do something amazing to impress everyone. Both of these can be used for both factors, depends on how far you will go! Hope this helps!

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fritzmerde: 1 year ago

Liqueur always works for me

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superglide79: 1 year ago via iPhone

Lmao

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Leedlelee1911: 1 year ago

Wtf is liquere watever you wrote

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katthehypochondriac: 1 year ago via iPhone

HAH! Amen.

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chinthing: 1 year ago

more talkative,not too talkative,haha.

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fritzmerde: 1 year ago

sorry im drunk

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tianchunhui: 1 year ago

You are narcissistic. It's a kind of psychological defense mechanism. You should not be that proud, and think more from other people's point of view,like: if you were that person, what do you want to get? praise for his new car, give someone advice, etc. Then you just lead them to do that, by your praise, or your asking for advice.

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14c32: 1 year ago

It's not that he/she is vain, it's that they are self concious of how others view them and are shy...

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beatles67: 1 year ago via iPhone

Take pride in yourself and know that other people are not different from you. They are also short of in many respects and have fear all the time. Visit Ask.com often then you will get to know what others think and what to do in some specific cases.

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zamrock21: 1 year ago

I've web on ask since last summer;)

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faygee: 1 year ago via Android

start with the mirror! also, try listing all the good things about yourself. whenever u feel self conscious, think of something u love abt urself and remember that who cares about them? you rock and thats all that matters! good luck!

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katthehypochondriac: 1 year ago via iPhone

Be funny. People like people that make people laugh.

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cemeterysister1: 1 year ago

Type in the ask search bar HOW TO BECOME MORE SELF CONFIDENT and see what you get. You should come up with a bunch of self help websites, some will want money, others will not. It's a step in the right direction to use the valuable tool you have at your finger tips! You can also check out self help book from our local library. If you do not want anyone knowing you're reading such books, make a book cover from wrapping paper to cover the book with. It takes practice to become more self confident. GOOD LUCK !

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cheerdancediva: 1 year ago via iPhone

Do not be afraid of what others think about you. Your not going to be perfect and some people will like you and others won't. Either way you'll still have people on your side!GOOD LUCK!(:

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Citsonga: 1 year ago

Alcohol can help if you're old enough. There is truth to old adage "liquid courage". But most of all just accept who you are and talk to people. There really is no way to get good at talking with people but to talk to them. There will be mean people, there will be nice people, and then there will be people interested in the same things you are.

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mfpen428: 1 year ago

Start by listening to what people are talking about. Get familiar with those topics and form your own opinions. Say what you want to say and not what you think others want you to say.

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redheaddidstranger: 1 year ago

Focus on who you are talking to, not on yourself.

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Ryan420Kush: 1 year ago

o god... take pride in bein a quite person...dats how i am, and id rather be me, then some big mouth punk...people hate. NO1 KNOWS HOW TO KEEP IT G, N KEEP TA DEM SELF NO MORE.... dont change!!

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Rcasper14: 1 year ago | Last edited at 10:09AM on 5/1/2012

if you are a guy, you can start by growing a pair, if your a girl you can ummmmm....

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Dookiedogs: 1 year ago

How to be more self confident

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Prettyb: 1 year ago | Last edited at 2:29PM on 5/1/2012

If you are around people let them start a conversation and join in.So you can get the fill of how they are so you won't feel like you are talking about the wrong thing at the wrong time.

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wicket02: 1 year ago

Well, i was new at my school, and i was quiet for like a month, and now im myself, just don't be embarrassed!!!!:)

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RedSoxFan33: 1 year ago

Get out more and meet new people

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ayudame241: 1 year ago

Be yourself and if yourself is a quiet person then try and meet new people and be very outgoing, people like that kinda personality.

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TylerNa: 1 year ago | Last edited at 7:41PM on 5/1/2012

If this is towards strangers, just think " I'll never see that person ever again in my life."
If this is towards close comrades, you can just think " they'll forget I ever said this in at least like 3 weeks."
Everything is all about perspective

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IMShady: 1 year ago

Being introverted usually stems from a lack of self confidence. Here's a solution you probably didn't think of for confidence - hypnosis. Think of this as a behavior issue that is controlled at the subconscious level. You're conscious mind is already aware of the behavior problem but can't convince your subconscious mind to change. Hypnosis bypasses the conscious mind to directly reach the subconscious mind and offer a suggestion for a new or different behavior. The effect is immediate upon leaving the hypnotic state and you should start noticing the difference right away. Look into it and give it a try.

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