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Can a guy like you even if he has a girlfriend?

I have a crush on this shy guy but he's been in a long distance relationship with his girlfriend for a few years they live about 14 hours away from each other and see each other twice a year. They have split up quit a lot but they get back together after 2 months or so and then split up again. Anyway my friends say he always stares at me every time he sees me for example he'll turn around and stare when he's on the bus or he'll just stare at me when he walks past I'm so confused why could he be doing this? I really like him but I'm also shy he just doesn't seem the type of guy who would do that cause surely he would cheat on his girlfriend but hes not i just dont get why he has to stare at me every time he sees me.

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It happens all the time, so it is very possible. However, you shouldn't even be entertaining those thoughts you have; leave the guy alone and move on since you already know he has a girlfriend, the fact that it's long distance notwithstanding.

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Yes, you can like anyone.

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yes go ask him!

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Leigh75

Doesn't matter... Girl or no girl... She's there your here... Do the math!!

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mar30

This happens a lot. When a guy is in a long distance relationship he can also grow to like another girl. Are you two friends? If ya'll are he may be growing fond to you. He probably does like you if he's always starring at ya.
Good luck. I hope I helped.

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fritzmerde

Gotta go with Gabe, unless you like monogamy--a dock in every port

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Go get him girl!

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He's dating but not married. People date so that they can choose a mate. A date is not a choice of a mate. Consider him single and try to spend some time with him. You may save him 28 hours travel per week.

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you should go tell him how you feel

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twice a year it's only a matter of time before it ends so I would pursue him some how some way .Don't be shy just one day go sit next to him and the rest will take care of itself 14 hours away are they nut's

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yes

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Let me start off by saying that men are going to stare at any chick no matter what its a natural thing for them and I myself don't belive in long distance relationship without a man having to cheat. Also he probably stares at you because he's noticed you stare at him too or maybe its possable that someone has told him about your crush on him. I wouldn't try anything with him because he does have a girlfriend and if you say they've been on and off for the past few years he'll end up just playing with you just to satisfy his needs.

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