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Why do people give me strange looks sometimes? It's not like I'm a monster or something....

I think it's because of how I act (randomness) and how I dress...
Band tees (usually black), skinny jeans, chucks or Osiris',
sometimes my beanie, and sometimes eyeliner....
I don't really care what people think of me,
but why should all of that matter...?

I'm a person too.... One time this dude called me a
fag because of how I was dressed.... :| ( and I'm a girl! )

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Why does it matter? Just be who you are...Just be the best darn person you can be and you'll do just fine! Are you with me?!?! Ya! Cyber high five! "Smack!"...

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YAH. WOOO! xD
:)
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Hello Mikale nice day to you and yours
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Great answer! Green to u
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Mahalo nui loa!
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Thumbs up.
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Thanks Ork...
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BrianBokker

because you probably stand out from all the others.

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Yeah.
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Standing out is good, then you won't be forgotten.
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people r jerks they pick on u bcuz ur happy just by being urself i hope this answers ur question :)

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Yeah, at most times I am a pretty happy person.
Thanks. :)
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ur welcome!! :)
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This is true! Green to u
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people are always gonna be dicks in life but you have to always keep your head up ..at least you love yourself and who you are and im sure your beautiful and sweet , but they dont they are always gonna be worried about how they look or what people think ...dont let it get to you just learn to let go and just simply be happy (peace and love)

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Thanks. I get called the "good kid" all the time and I
get called cute by my friends. x3

Thanks again for the encouragement.
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anytime cutie ;)
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Tee hee. :)
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Great answer, green to u
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thanks. peace&love
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I agree with my friend Mikale, be yourself, be who you want to be, dress the way you like, when those people start paying your bills then they might get a say. Just be the best person you can be for yourself.

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Lol, yeah. Thanks. :)
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People form judgements on strangers around them based mostly on appearance and how the strangers carry themselves. You may be the nicest person ever, but if you look different from what others consider the norm, you will be unfairly judged. Remember, always be yourself and don't let others tell you who to be.

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Thanks! :)
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its because ur so damn kool and the wish they could have the courage that you have to go in public and to dress how you want to. they wish they could be as good looking as you. they are just plain jealous of you and wish they could be you.
So dont trip.
you are a person, just like me and the people across the street or in the next town.
and i love you just the way you are XD

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Lol. That could be a possibility, I highly doubt it, but yet,
it is a possibility. cx
I know my sister is jealous of me for sure. xD

And thank you. :)
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and i am sure it is because they are jealous. they dont show it because they dont want to admit that they are weak, or that they have been beaten.
you are beautiful and thats all you need to remember.
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My personality is beautiful... I'll admit that. xD
I try my best to help others and give advice, be there for people who
need emotional support. :)

People around me tell me I am cute, pretty, & beautiful....
I always deny it and try to argue that I'm not. xD xP
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but you are beautiful as long as you believe it.
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bleeding_lullaby
Aw, that's sweet.
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You deserve it pretty lady.
You are a beautiful flower still at bud.
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bleeding_lullaby
Aw. I have a long way to go. xD
Haven't even really officially started my life yet.
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yea which means you kan only get better from here and you know that you will succeed because you are who you are and your not afraid of that.
which makes you special, never forget that and you will be just fine :)
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Aw thanks.
Sorry for the extremely late reply. owo
I was just browsing my old questions and yeeaaahhh. lol. x3
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Being a Rebel has a price attached.
If you aren't willing to Happily pay that price with Pride... You should conform.

I Proudly fly my flag, and God Bless everyone else who does so!

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I am indeed a rebel. xD
Thanks for answering.
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Bless your soul.
And best of luck.
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Green my friend!
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Darn right...
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Well you can not have it both ways just like dressing for business if you want people to take you seriously you have to dress the part other wise society as a whole does judge a book by its cover its the first thing they see

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I don't need people to take me too seriously. xD
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i get weird looks all the time! but it might just be my cap and tights? o.O im normal i swear i am! lol, if people dont like the way you ,look,act or dress they can kick rocks, beat feet, take a hike, take a long walk off a shirt pier, fly a kite...... get the idea? lol, the only opinion that should count to you is yours.

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Indeed.
Thanks for answering. :)
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I'm Guessing By Your UserName Your A Gothic. ( No OFFENSE at ALL! ) I'm Guessing They Feel Like EverOne Should Be The Same, Which Isn't Right! EverOne can Be anything They WANT!

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I am who I am.
I don't stereotype myself & usually don't stereotype others
unless they do it to themselves.

And that last comment is very true.

Thanks for answering~
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Because people now a days are always looking for ways to make them self look better or they are stuck up it's nothing personal their probably also jealous just stare right back with the same attitude and love your uniqueness

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Thanks for the advice. :)
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No problem hun
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