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I love to hold hands, and i have a boyfriend but he doesnt really hold my hand, how do i secretly get him to? help

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I think you can try and complement him about his hands and hold them as you do and ensure that you don't let go. You can also try getting closer to him and soon, very slowly put your hand in theirs.



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thank you, i appreciate you replying to my question
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When youre sitting down together, just put your hand really close to his, almost touching but not quite. smile and look him in the eyes. I do this to my boyfriend all the time and he usually gets it ;)

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thank you :)
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youre welcome, good luck!
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thank you! ill sure need it (:
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Tell him you like holding hands with him, that it makes you happy. If he really cares for you as a boyfriend he will hold hands with you after you ask him to.

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Tell him how you feel. That you like that kind of PDA as they call it and if he cares about you it won't bother him to hold ur hand because that is something tht makes you happy.

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Just grab his hand and don't let go he will ether hold it or try and wrestle free which will make you mad or happy depending on his reaction.Srry im not very subtle about these things.

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its fine, your advice was appreciated, and it was helpful, so thank you :)
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