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How do you tell your boyfriend you want him to be more affectionate !?

my boyfriend and me went from friend to betsy friends to friends with benefits to couple :) and everything's been perfect till last month where he stop showing me love :( and sometimes I feel like we just friends again I dot want to lose him Waht do I do !?

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Mr_FadedGlory

Voice your concerns on the matter. Communicate with him your views on your relationship history. From there, discuss what options the both of you have from here on out.

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Leigh75
Very therapist like answer..
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Mr_FadedGlory
Actually, I was just taking the long route in saying, communicate more.
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But thanks, I appreciate it
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ellemacgregor

Boyfriend, id love it if you were more affectionate towards me

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Short, sweet, to the point. I like it. I REALLY like it..
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ellemacgregor
Sounds like me! Short, sweet, to the point, oh...wait...I'm not short :)
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Thanks, sis
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Might have to lose him.
You can be straight up and honest but you can't make him do anything. You try to change him or control him he may run away. No one wants to be changed or controlled. You can accept him and be unhappy if you want but that doesn't sound like a good idea.

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be straight up and if his answer is "you don't need me to show you I love you" on to the next one gurl! sorry for being so blunt don't overwhelm yourself over one guy. after all he is ONE guy there are better out there good luck!

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you could take him out on a really nice date and what not then after the date tell him how you feel if he is still acting this way

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Give him a wrapped gift with condoms inside. Or have him come over and go into your room. Then tell him he cans do whatever he wants to you for one hour. You can set restrictions if you want to but after the hour, switch roles, and do it again.

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TeAmoDaWifey
SO YOU IS THE LIL boi trying to holla at my girl
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