You are obviously getting a bad feeling from this. The fact that he always comes through your line sounds to me like passive aggressive behavior. Like he is letting you know he can do what he wants. I understand you not wanting it to turn into a big deal and possibly provoke him to some kind of action. However you can't ignore this. I think you need to talk to your boss so he is aware of the situation and tell him it needs to be handled in a delicate way. If he does anything or says anything that you feel is threatening in anyway you need to report him. If your store is not the only one within a reasonable distance you can actually get a restraining order and he cannot come in to your place of employment. Just stay alert and aware but don't let him bully you, even in a passive way. Don't be afraid to not do something about it. That's probably what he wants and it does sound like he is trying to make some kind of a statement by always coming to your register. Listen to you gut feeling on this one. Stay safe! you don't have to feel like you are reacting out of fear but that you are taking a stand against someone who has hurt you in the past and you are not going to tolerate again. in other words you are not running scared you are stepping up and being proactive about the situation.

The best thing you can do is to ignore him. This is because, if you try to raise this issue, he might try to hurt you. Just serve him as you would to any other customer. It is also important to consult a legal personality for more information.

leelee97: 1 year ago

This happened 13 years ago when I was in high school. I got the police involved then, but things never developed because there was no "evidence" that he actually did assault me.....it was basically he said she said. Would it still be on file?

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kick his ass

leelee97: 1 year ago

wish I could........but hes bigger than me :(

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RexViatores: 1 year ago

hell yeah!

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RexViatores: 1 year ago

great answer

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RexViatores: 1 year ago

leelee97... learn krav maga, and send me the video I enjoy ass kickings

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mrAWSOME: 1 year ago

you could get a buddy or 2 or 3 then kick his ass!!!

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RexViatores: 1 year ago

yeah! cmon mr awesome lets go over to this guys grocery store and help him out!

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RexViatores: 1 year ago

im rounding up a posse!

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mrAWSOME: 1 year ago

you want one?:)

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RexViatores: 1 year ago

I think he does. Wheres your grocery store leelee96? I'll mapquest it right now. Drive my dads harley over there.

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leelee97: 1 year ago

hahahaha you guys are awesome!!! But Im a GIRL.......and Id rather not say where I live lol!!!

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mrAWSOME: 1 year ago

Lee is a girl

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mrAWSOME: 1 year ago

Slap him in the face

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Hold your head high and serve him as you would anyone else. Ignore anything he says or does. Do not react and do not let him have any kind of power over you.

leelee97: 1 year ago

so I shouldn't tell my boss?

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DawnMartin2011: 1 year ago via iPhone

You could if you really feel you need to. Tell your boss openly and honestly so that he is aware.

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That must be scary. I think you should tell your boss or carry a baseball bat with ya. Both will get you great results. Hee. Hee.

Buy a gun, or a taser if your soft. Tase him in the throat though!