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angel_5365: 1 year ago | Last edited at 3:28PM on 5/8/2012

How do i shake off this feeling? please help and please read bellow

my bf and i havent talked in over a month and its a really really long distance relationship, he said he needed some time to himself. i trust him and i love him with all my heart but i cant help but feeling like hes gonna break up with me or hes cheating or something! he said he loves me and would never do anything to hurt but i just dont know what to think anymore, was this relationship a joke to him, was he lying to me the whole time and never loved me, does he think im just some girl from washington and he doesnt care about me? i dont know what im supposed to do or think or anything. i just feel like.... i dont know how i feel, not knowing how i feel is kinda freaky and i dont know how get away from this feeling???? please help!!! MODS DO NOT DELETE THIS QUESTION, I KNOW THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH IT!!!!!!!!

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rachel_jenn: 1 year ago

I would suggest you talk to him about the relationship you two had, and what he has planned on doing. You may try getting over the feeling by being busy with family and hobbies.

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angel_5365: 1 year ago

but i cant talk to him cause i dont want to text him and seem pushy cause im not pushy, and when he told me he needed some time to himself i told him take as much time as he needs but i wasnt thinking cause i kinda freaked out cause before he told me, he didnt talk to me for 2 days then on the 3rd day thats when he told me

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leon78516: 1 year ago

its alright angel everything is gonna be alright.

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angel_5365: 1 year ago

It's not gonna be alright, think of this way(if you have a gf), so she's far away from you and your talking everyday and everything's fine then one night you say goodnight and everything and go to bed, next day you txt her and no reply so you wait a while and txt again but still no answer, next day comes same thing happens and by this point your kinda freaked out and thinking whats going on, so you decide to call her and no answer so you leave a message then a little while later you get a txt from her saying its been a long weekend and some stuff happened and she needs some time to herself then you get nothing from her, no texts no calls no nothing for over a month. And all this happened 2 days before your 3rd month! Wouldn't you be worried?

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leon78516: 1 year ago

this has happened to me. you will be fine just calm down.

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angel_5365: 1 year ago

yea not that easy to just calm down....

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leon78516: 1 year ago

it isnt i know. but most of the time ti comes out good.

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angel_5365: 1 year ago

Ok thanks

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leon78516: 1 year ago

think of this. he loves you. he took the time to talk to you to care for you all the time you guys were in contact. maybe hes busy. all the kids in texas are taking a new test called staars. our teachers have us busting ourselves over these books and subjects.whats the guys name anyways? what city is he in?

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angel_5365: 1 year ago

He lived in Kansas and I live in Washington. It's just kinda weird cause everything was fine then nothing for 2 days then he says he needs time to himself and nothing for over a month, I mean really isn't that just not normal.

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angel_5365: 1 year ago

And good luck on that test.

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leon78516: 1 year ago

just text him then. you may sound pushy, but your worried about him and care for him.

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SportsGuy: 1 year ago

tru dat.. cant talk to each other? or wont? red flags. id be talkin if it was me. to at least create an understanding so you wouldnt be in the dark.. even if 1 or 2x a week

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angel_5365: 1 year ago

but i cant just text him, i have to be open to every possibility, like you said maybe hes busy, idk, but if i do text him and ask him if theres someone else or something like that, ill sound like a total b!tch and i know im not but you never know what people think

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leon78516: 1 year ago

hmmm this is gonna be tough. try not talking at all to him. he may be testing you. dont give in.

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angel_5365: 1 year ago

Yea I make things complicated I know sorry. And ok thanks

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leon78516: 1 year ago

no problem......

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ZackCrosswell: 1 year ago

Ask him if there is someone else

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angel_5365: 1 year ago

its not that easy, if it was that easy i would

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ZackCrosswell: 1 year ago via Android

it easy you just got to not be scared

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Emperor11: 1 year ago

Long distance relationships don't work period.

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