Well love is not a feeling, but rather a decision. A decision to spend the rest if your life showing someone everyday how much they mean to you, and having those actions reciprocated. It's knowing that even at that persons worst they still bring out your best. It's having a base foundation to build a healthy relationship upon. A foundation that was built and is maintained at all times by both parties involved. A foundation comprised of trust, communication, compromise, commitment, and mutual attraction. Without anyone of these a relationship can crumble and the decision to love begins to deteriorate. But if you both decide to truly love one another; you will both spend the rest of your lives working hard to maintain that foundation. You can hang all the bs "feelings" on it you want, but that's what love really is.