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isabElizabeth: 1 year ago via Android

? does relationship matter age ? ? like 16 years apart ?

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marthseeem: 1 year ago

The age difference between you and your partner shouldn't matter. In the event that it does, the problem should lie between the two of you and not other people. In my opinion, 16 years apart isn't that large if the two of you have a mutual understanding and you can make the relationship work.

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isabElizabeth: 1 year ago via Android

well he likes me a lot and like him to... SO DOES IT MATTERS OR NOT :(

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isabElizabeth: 1 year ago via Android

alright !!! also i have a son does it matters to ???

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trashman3000: 1 year ago via iPhone | Last edited at 3:13PM on 5/9/2012

What!!!!! 16 years!

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isabElizabeth: 1 year ago via Android

YES 16 YRS. APART

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chocolateluvalot: 1 year ago via iPhone

This does not matter if he loves you and you love him and you're happy together don't worry about what other people think or say

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bgscelicagts: 1 year ago via iPhone | Last edited at 3:25PM on 5/9/2012

No, age isn't a problem unless your under age and he is over 18. If both of y'all are of age. Don't worry about the age difference. My fianc? and I are 14 years apart. All that matters is between you two and no one else.

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isabElizabeth: 1 year ago via Android

uuuuuuyyyy !!!! well i'm 18 going to be 19 and he's 35...

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bgscelicagts: 1 year ago via iPhone

No problem the age, love each other and don't listen to anyone that said its wrong. just be happy.

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isabElizabeth: 1 year ago via Android

alright !!! my family always are back of me they telling me that it looks wrong

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bgscelicagts: 1 year ago via iPhone

Nah girl it doesn't look bad. go be with him, they will eventually get over it. You live once, enjoy it with who you want. :-) I love my fiance, I have 3 girls from a previous marriage and they love him.

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isabElizabeth: 1 year ago via Android

:D mmm i have a son but he's not the dad :( but he told me he accepts my son

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bentheredunthat: 1 year ago | Last edited at 3:27PM on 5/9/2012

It's a little easier when both people are over age 40, but not usually before. Maturity & interest issues can make things difficult. But there are always exceptions.

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isabElizabeth: 1 year ago via Android

well he's 35 and i'm going to be 19 does it matters ???

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bentheredunthat: 1 year ago

Oh my gosh - yes. I think what you have to consider are your mutual interests - what draws you together aside from the physical attraction? Important because, as many wise people say, in between hugs & kisses - what do you talk about? What do you have in common? It's OK to have different interests, keeps things interesting, but if you are both too far divided in your likes, dislikes, social & political views, there may be some problems.

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bgscelicagts: 1 year ago via iPhone

That's not absolutely true about the age difference and maturity levels. Some younger people are at a higher level than others their age. My fiance and I are 14 years apart, we are best friends and have everything I'm common. So it really depends.

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bentheredunthat: 1 year ago

Completely agree with you, there are exceptions. My opinions is only based on personal experience. I just don't want to paint a rosy picture of romance - esp. re spring/winter younger woman-older guy relationships. My mom & dad were just 10 years apart when they married. (19/29) My mom thought it was very romantic & glamorous to marry an older, experienced guy. My dad was not so enamoured. Her being very naive & innocent about life caused friction & fights between them. He'd been around the world & seen a lot. He also had a difficult time dropping his single guy habits for marriage responsibilities, because he married later in life. (It was the early 60's) She ended up deeply disallusioned & eventually they divorced. Not all relationships end like this but it's a good reminder to be aware of such things, esp should marriage happen.

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bobcat13: 1 year ago

as long as its like legal then i think its ok but if its not then you should probably wait till you or your partner are at legal age...

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isabElizabeth: 1 year ago via Android

mmm i'm going to turn 19 and he's 35 ???

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bobcat13: 1 year ago

hey if hes who you want then go for it and just to be safe make sure hes not married :)

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isabElizabeth: 1 year ago via Android

He's not married at all !!!

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bobcat13: 1 year ago

well then if you two trust each other i think you two will be very happy together so dont worry about the age its whats on the inside that counts :)

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isabElizabeth: 1 year ago via Android

:) thanks for the good advices

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bobcat13: 1 year ago

any time :D

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isabElizabeth: 1 year ago via Android

I really appreciate and God Bless You

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