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How do I build my self esteem so I think I'm pretty.?

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personally, i think your really pretty. i 16, and i had self esteem issues. but the key is to ignore whatever one says about you, altho it might be hard to, and just listen to your self. i struggles with it for a while. but now, i hardly have them. you just need to know your beautiful no matter what.

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I agree with u:) good advice
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thanks!:)
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Think that your pretty every day. Dress hot. By the you are hot so there you go.

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Your silly. Thanks Though(:
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Ya I know but I think it works.
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It's much more important to think of yourself as a good person. We all have our wonderfully unique look, but that's what we are given. Focus on what you can do to improve the lives of those around you and you'll find that they will see you as a beautiful individual.

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sorry, dont want to sound mean, but this "help other people" thing, NEVER works
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Awesome (:
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Lol just something to grab on to other than trying to do it yourself
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no one thinks that they are perfect, or really pretty, it is just a matter of not giving a sh*t what other people think. if its really bad though, you could try wearing makeup and low/tight shirts, and short shorts, or really tight jeans/leggings. hope this helps!!!

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Thanks so much.!!!(:
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np hope it helps(:
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So look like a whore?
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Hmm not such good advice. When u dress like that guys dont think much of you. You want guys to look at you and feel good about urself dress were u feel like u look good. The short skirts and short shorts isnt rlly a good self esteem builder sorry.. But u are beautiful:)
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that duznt make u look like a whore, a whore wuld b dressed with seethrough ripped legings with a seethrough top and hooker heels so no, not a whore
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you don't need pretty for self-esteem

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You can't look in the mirror and think that your ugly. Start by telling me this, have you ever been told that you are ugly or just think that? Either way don't let anyone tell you that and don't think that about yourself. A lot of people go thru this stage at some point in their life and the sad thing about it is that some people never grow out of it and some end up suicidal. Don't let yourself get that far. End it now. Tell yourself compliments. Everyday look in the mirror and give yourself a compliment each day but make it different every time and hopefully you will someday soon you will think you are one of the prettiest girls ever. Don't let it get to your head tho because if that happens it will change from a problem of thinking your ugly to not having any friends because you lie yourself so much. Sorry if that was confusing. Hope I helped:D!!

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well first of all....there is no THINK that u are pretty because u are.....and the only reason that someone would say that your not is because they are jelious....and they don't have enough self esteem to realize that even though they don't think they are pretty then everyone else should not either.....and u are very pretty......

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Thank you.!!<3(:
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ur welcome....
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Start talking to older guys

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Haha. alright.
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Thanks(:
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In order for other people to think you're pretty, you have to think you're pretty

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And from your picture I would say u are pretty
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"cough cough" :/
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I can't say a girl is pretty but u can talk about guys being hot?
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I just coughed I didn't say anything
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You guys goingg out.? Lol^^
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No but we are talking.. But I think he's still mad at me.. :(.. Soo yea
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Oh haha I don't thinkk so(:
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Excercise always helps.

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Believe in yourself and don't let others judge how you look. No one elses opinion should matter and you should never think negative about yourself(:

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Hang around really ugly fat girls. It's the easiest way to look better without diet and exercise.

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That's mean.! Lol
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I was kinda thinking the same thing... Sometimes when i dress up i feel pretty but then sometimes i dont

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That's so true
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well mayve you nees someone to tell you that you are. BTW i think your beautiful

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Thanks<3
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no problem. besides its the truth
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