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matthew1985
matthew1985: 1 year ago

Why don't girls like me? I have approached hundreds of girls in my life and I have never known a girl to be attracted to me. Im not ugly.

I feel like I don't have the "it" that makes a girl like you. Not one girl has liked me in over 20 years. What is wrong!

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ShebaBowie
ShebaBowie: 1 year ago

Girls are attracted to confidence, not arrogance. Sincerity, not pick up lines. If you come off as nervous and unnatural you won't put people at ease. Woman can smell desperation too. Not that i'm assuming you're a desperate person but feeling rejected can make you anxious and impatient and that comes off as desperate.
If you're attractive, i'd date you myself.
You wont have a hard time.
Think positive.

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oringinay
oringinay: 1 year ago

Girls will actually not like a guy as a result of many factors, which include weird character, poor presentation, sheer arrogance and high handedness among others. You need to cultivate some good manners, maintain your personal hygiene, shape your conversation skills and decisively take the initiative. Check out watchtower.org/e/200905a/article_01.htm to learn more.

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ShebaBowie
ShebaBowie: 1 year ago
Agreed.
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JayG203
JayG203: 1 year ago

Personality, style etc... There are many factors.

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blah22
blah22: 1 year ago via iPhone

Girls look for a guy who's nice confident listens who's funny and other things too depends on the girl to know what she's looking for but if you have a great personality then maybe u just haven't found the right girl, don't get down on yourself try getting to know her and be friends first you'll find someone!

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febnan
febnan: 1 year ago

don't get down on yourself

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cagannon
cagannon: 1 year ago via iPhone

Girls like guys who pay attention to them, genuinely listen to them, respect their opinions, acknowledge them. Don't you prefer that, too?

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lanalaw
lanalaw: 1 year ago via iPhone

How old ru ?

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76248girl
76248girl: 1 year ago

Don't feel bad, it might just be your approach or wording.

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LISAMARI13
LISAMARI13: 1 year ago

personalty the way you present you self the way you act ect.. if you wanna know more or want more help comment an i will help you

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LoganWilkinson
LoganWilkinson: 5 months ago

Dude, girls do not like me. Im not going to sugar coat anything like anyone else would, nice guys like us are hopeless. All girls want are complete jerks, im a nice guy to(assuming your one). Don't try acting like a jerk to try to fit in,they don't care about confidence,all they want is a cute guy,plastic surgery might work,well,im 13,and I can't afford it. So mabey just find a girl who has the same interest as you and take it slow. (I just thought of that off the top of my head,so im going to try that) So I have no idea dude. You might want to try match.com or something. Good luck!!!

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