Please tell me any suggestions on what I should do or how to handle this? Read below
My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half. Since we started dating we were inseperable and after about 9 months we decided to get an apartment together. The problem is... we argue. I know that every couple argues, but he constantly makes me feel like I am doing something wrong. I know I am not perfect.. but I am a good catch. I dont do anything that warrents him yelling at me. He does not trust me, but I have given him no reason not to, and I trust him completely. I feel as if I constantly walk on eggshells around him. I don't say things the way he wants me to say them, I talk too slow (southern draw), pretty much I cannot read his mind. We have had conversations about disrespecting each other and I tell him I will not tolerate it yet he continues. I love him..but I am starting to feel like I am not the person he needs to be with as he is always critisizing me. I also feel as if he has no consideration for how I feel. I need some advice, I have been torn between returning to my Mothers or staying with him and trying to fix things. I just don't know how to fix things when I feel I am the only one putting forth the effort. Any advice will help!!