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how can i read my so called boyfriends text messages without his phone?

we have been together a very long time.

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(((TRUST))) issue is the problem here Granny you don't trust the man that's the bottom line. To the point where he's now reduced to being called a so called boyfriend and you've been reduced to seeking out was to spy on him like a hired private eye to spy on him. Yes there's a strong reason for you wanting to do extensive detective work on this man and you might say it's none of our business but when you post on this sight you make it our business. You really need to stop playing in your head and tell the man that you don't trust him, so that you and him can bring your issues out in the open and stop playing (((spy-vs-spy))) because not trusting your partner brings a miserable and upsetting attitude in to the relationship. Now let me say this before I go back into Internet world, have no (((trust))) is only a slow miserable (((rust))) to a corroding relationship that's doomed to end.

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I have trusted him until recently.
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Good answer. Thumbs!!
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You are in desperate need for a long talk with him seriously.
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Deb thanks
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the problem is i talk and he does not he never has in the 10 years that we have been together i feel that something is going on and he won't talk so i need to fond out.






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Like I said in my answer you need to have a all the cards on the table talk with him because to wrongs don't make a right. Pour your heart out to the man and tell him that you have reason not to trust him but remember if you don't have evidence then you could be mistaken and run the risk of falsely accusing him, so be wise on your approach concerning this matter.
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if u go into his phone u are creating TROUBLE and you will reget it. Stay out of his phone.
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Dustee you are so right and that's why I respect you abundantly
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if u start going in ur mate's phone or other personal information will reget it and i guarantee u this... u will end up CRYING, respect your mate...
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You are right Dustee and you to Charmer
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You can read you boyfriends' text message without his phone on your computer by installing a mobile phone spying software. Be aware that this may bring up some invasion of privacy issues if you ever fall out, so you should always seek professional advice before doing so.

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thank you for your advice.
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You can't unless he has a smart phone and you buy a device that enables you to. Go to best buy. Also, you could check his records online to see if he has lots of texts to an odd number. You could also put a voice activated recorder in his car.

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Where were you 3 years ago when I needed this info and where can I get one of those voice activated recorders
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thank you sp much for your advice
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Best Buy has everything. The voice activated recorders are only about 30.
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Wait till he takes a shower, then just pick up his phone and read them.

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He always takes his phone where ever he goes that's why i need to know if i can read them another way.
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What about when he's sleeping?
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trouble Trouble TROUBLE
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And more trouble :0( ((not good ))
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Sweetie don't do that or if he finds out and dumps you, he'll be calling you the crazy ex girlfriend. Believe me I tried that once but with Facebook, extremely bad idea.

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so if i think something is going on and he won't talk to me what should i do
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Clare thumbs up u r correct
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If you think something is going on, you sit down and ask him. If he can't be honest with you then he isn't worth it. I've learned thats the best choice, my ex a few years ago was not a trustworthy guy, so one evening at dinner I sat down and asked him very calmly "Have you ever cheated on me?" he confessed he had once before and I dumped him. Now I'm married to a wonderful man and I have two kids and one on the way. So just trust what ever happens is suppose to happen.
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stay out of his phone. PERIOD. can u say TROUBLE.

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100% thumbs up
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Trust in the force, guide you in the right direction it will

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