It means you had a dream period. We often look for meaning when their is none. If it did mean something what are you going to do to change it? Live in the hear and now, tell him you love him (if you do) and give him a big hug and a kiss ( if you love him). Live for today because it could be your last not his.
In the book of dreams it says seeing someone dying or seeing yourself die in a dream means person who died will live a relatively long time. I personally think its bs-ish. I just think you thought of something during the day or sometime in the past that triggered you to dream your husbands death
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Sometimes what we dream is what is in our subconscious mind and we are not aware of. Maybe you saw a funeral somewhere or heard about death during the day. And what was in your subconscious mind manifested in a dream.
I had a dream that my boyfriend died a few years ago and a week later he did die in a motorbike accident. The dream was full of images was was like a visual metaphor for exactly how things were going to go after he passed and at the funeral. It was spot on. I have had friends who had similar dreams however, and nothing happened to their loved ones so don't worry yourself too much.
I don't think all death dreams literally mean a death will occur though, I do think they can represent a fear of abandonment or that can also symbolize a new beginning.
At the end of the day if its going to happen, its going to happen. I think the main thing about dreams like this is that it means change. I think shows us that this relationship is important, so it would be a good idea to look at what we need to do with it, for example if it is going nowhere then maby consider a new beginning? If going as good as can be expected, we can look at what we can do to make it even better.... especially as the dream was so upsetting at the though of loosing our loved one! I think it can remind us that in the latter case it is worth putting in the extra effort.