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How to get my ex back after a hard break up.

So i told my exs bestfriend i loved him as a joke and the best friend knew it was a joke but showed my boyfriend the text and i got dumped. My boyfriend still likes me and trust me and forgave me but somethings holding him back.. what should i do?

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The reason he may be holding back is because he feels that you are still in love with your ex and he may also probably be insecure about the whole issue. Ensure that you also apologize about it so that things will get back to normal between you.

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many people have been telling me to not talk to him as in no contact to cause him to miss me. what do u recommend.. i know i made a mistake but i really want him back. What should i do?
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be yourself around him

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Try to apologize or make him feel better with jokes, movies etc. And explain it was a stupid little mistake, then mabye it will be better

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Give him some time.You don't want to be to pushy or cling. He obviously still cares about you.But,he probably needs space to think things out.

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You shouldn't of jokingly sent that text message to someone who would purposely hurt your relationship what I would recommend doing is just trying to talk to your ex boyfriend, and let him understand the situation guys are more logical than females. So if you talk to him on a logical level that he can understand. He's way more likely to see your point of view and understand what happen. Of course, that's easier said than done because guys can also be hardheaded. Just give him a call and talk to him nothing serious just something lighthearted conversation, slowly bring up the relationship. I recommend checking out www.LoveHasHope.com it has some pretty good advice.

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